Why has he not text me?

Why has he not text me?
Basically the other night I told him I wasn't sure if things was going to work out with us because he started to confuse me, tell me one thing and does another and lied to me, these wasn't major things buts if its only been a short while of going out, surely its going to get worse later on? anyway we talked and said to him its the only and last chance he will get and he said ok and I ended the conversation with 'yep.....' We haven't spoken since and I dont know whether to text him first or for him to text me...I don't want to make it seem like I give in easily, I want to make sure that I mean what I say...but don't know whether I am being harsh?

From what you've written, it sounds like you issued an ultimatum that did not work out the way you wanted. You told him what you needed and that it was his last chance to comply. It looks like he decided not to comply and you guys broke up. He may not be texting you because he's moving on.

Next time, try expressing your needs and talk *with* the guy (not *at* him) to see if the two of you can agree on a way to work things out so both people feel heard and get what they need. Ultimatums usually don't work... and if you feel the need to deliver an ultimatum in the first place, then there are serious communication issues.

Oh, I forgot to say... GOOD FOR YOU for paying attention to your instincts on the lying, unreliability, etc. In my opinion, you were exactly right on that. It sounds like he just wasn't a good fit.

I dated a boy like that, you should end it now. When you get to this point he is trying to hut pet you and confuse you. He wants to see of you meant what you said and if this is really his last chance. DO NOT CONTACT HIM FIRST. Wait for him. And remember that if its meant to be, it will be.