I had sex with my best friends boy friend

I had sex with my best friends boyfriend, and we did a lot more even just before they were goin to meet we did things, it's been on my mind a lot, he always says he wishes he met me before her,
Do I just come clean and tell her what's happening or keep it to myself ?
Anna123
Asked Jan 22, 2013
You should have sex wiith me
Well, you should come clean and then if she can forgive you, you've got a good friend there. if it was me, I'd cut you out and pretend like you never existed. i'm sure you feel bad about it, but you should feel worst, its one thing he cheated on her, we girls expect that from guys, they're jerks..but our bestfriends? no ..you should know better.
Your relationship with yur best friend should really come first. But how "best friend" is she if you are doing this behind her back. It sound as though this is only sex-it'll will always be there, but good friends in life wont.
thebestforus
Answered Jan 22, 2013
Ok, well we talked about it last night, she told me she has already known for a month and a half and I kept apologizing in person this is and she says if it was a big deal then she wouldnt be here tonight she's fine with it and I'm shocked! He was the one who told her, and they are still together, she knows everything that we have done and she still gave me a kiss and hug goodnight and she still calls me my nick name, and if we hate each other we don't so somehow this went completely right!
Best friend not lost and their relationship still stands!
Anna123 Jan 22, 2013
whoa be very careful about how you approach this. yes you should tell her but dont rush into it as it will upset her a lot. hope you can still be friends after you tell her.
MohitMago
Answered Jan 22, 2013
Ok, well we talked about it last night, she told me she has already known for a month and a half and I kept apologizing in person this is and she says if it was a big deal then she wouldnt be here tonight she's fine with it and I'm shocked! He was the one who told her, and they are still together, she knows everything that we have done and she still gave me a kiss and hug goodnight and she still calls me my nick name, and if we hate each other we don't so somehow this went completely right!
Best friend not lost and their relationship still stands!
Anna123 Jan 22, 2013
Great. Happy for you.
Oh my God why? If she's your bestfriend, why? I meanyou put two relationships in jeapordy, your friendship and their relationship, and I've heard of ppl killing theirselves over less. Ik it was a mistake but was u thinkin?!?!? Girl u screwed up, but idk what you shud do. Evaluate her as a person and yourself your friendship and how much she reallymeans to you and ask yourself, "can she handle this"? But you shud tell her its goin to come out somehow and the longer you hide it the worse her reaction will be, unless its the other way around, but in big situations like this think super hard the answer is within you. Idk your friend or her personality and how strong your relationship is so I can't give you all the info. Sorry about how I started out scolding and stuff but thts really horrible, but I hope all goes well, again, sorry for my extremely strong reaction.
Footballisgreat
Answered Jan 22, 2013
Ok, well we talked about it last night, she told me she has already known for a month and a half and I kept apologizing in person this is and she says if it was a big deal then she wouldnt be here tonight she's fine with it and I'm shocked! He was the one who told her, and they are still together, she knows everything that we have done and she still gave me a kiss and hug goodnight and she still calls me my nick name, and if we hate each other we don't so somehow this went completely right!
Best friend not lost and their relationship still stands!
Anna123 Jan 22, 2013
well then , thats good your relationship stands but I dont see why she's still with hiim?
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Answered Jan 22, 2013

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Answered Apr 13, 2014

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