I have done it 3 times but I m still confused I am virgin or not?

i m confused that I lost my virginity or not as I have done 3 times .. and I have heard it from everyone that when we lost our virginity when the hymen breaks down and the blood comes out ... but after doing 3 times it never happend with me ... sooo I want to ask do I m virgin or not ... and is it important that everygirl has hymen and its only break it by doing sexual intercourse .... plz its imp to me to know the answer ... plzzz reply soon

Yes, pretty much every girl gets a hymen - but that doesn't mean that all hymens are the same. :) And no, you wouldn't normally have to break your hymen in order to finger yourself. A normal hymen leaves a wide enough opening in the vagina for something small (like a finger or a tampon), and you definitely don't need a hymen to have a normal sex life later on.

Strenuous exercise (and especially things like horse riding) can cause your hymen to stretch or tear a little, even before you lose your virginity - however, you would generally feel that when it happens.

If you use a hand mirror, you should be able to see your hymen (or what's left of it). It's generally a small, crescent-shaped membrane that sits at the bottom of the vaginal opening, partially obstructing the opening to your vagina.
Source(s):
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hymen

If you've had intercourse then you're not a virgin anymore. I don't think your "cherry" needs to pop to prove it..

All hymens are different, for some women it bleeds and a for some it doesn't. It's normal.

no not a virgin

you are not a virgin having any kind of sexual intercourse(sex) is a loss of virginity