Look, i'm young too and honestly I wish I could have waited a while longer. I mean I thought a year was long enough to wait until I had sex but honestly it so wasn't, me and him now argue like all the time and he thinks just because we had sex i'm his and he can control me, I used to give into him and do whatever he says until I went on my vacation to Jamaica and I realized there they don't take shit from anybody and well when I got back I told him I wasn't his dog nor his bitch and I wont obey his orders anymore. I thought we were in love and even now we are trying to keep everything together. So please I hope you wait, for a guy having sex may not mean anything you just got it in the whole but for a girl she wont wont someone that has had 5 partners before her if she has waited. Marriage is the best way to go, they you know that nothing will go wrong and you will be there for each other forever.