I really like this girl, I dont know if sh to talk to her in here likes me, but I feel I annoy her?

I am a 15 year old guy in high school. I really like this one girl but I am not sure if she likes me or I am annoying her?? for some reason whenever I get around her, I am shy, but I could text her all the time? I know this is unhealthy and I want advice. I think I might be annoying her with all my texts but I am not quite sure. How can I get the confidence to talk to her in person because I know she would rather do that? Please help. Thanks.
sterfry
Asked Nov 13, 2012
The only thing I would suggest is the advice that regret is worse than embarrassment in the long run. It is better to get shot down and feel foolish than it is to look back several years from now and wonder what might have been if you had said something. My suggestion is to compose your thoughts, be mature and forthright, and tell her exactly what you feel and what you want. It might not work, but at least you are not playing any games, and you can respect yourself for your own honesty.

I've been shot down many times, but I still usually felt better after telling the person how I felt than I did keeping it bottled up. This isn't a guarantee of course. I don't know this person, and kids can be cruel. But from my personal experience that is the best advice I can give.
Popinjay
Answered Nov 13, 2012
I've once felt like i've been in your position. It happened with my most recent girlfriend (ex for about 3 months now). I was shy, yet very close with her in person, and when around her, we wouldn't talk much but could text a lot. If you think you're annoying her, then take it a step back. Don't text as often, but still text her, and see how she reacts. If she doesn't seem to care that you're not texting as often, then you've been annoying her.

If she does care, and asks you why you're doing, what you're doing, then no. You aren't annoying her.

Confidence is the key in so many things. I personally see it as a need in whatever I do. It took me quiet a while to build up my confidence and straight up tell her that I liked her. The day I told her I did, she said she did too and we ended up together for about two months. I'm not trying to imply that anything will happen with you and this lady, but I do wish you luck.
mofoandtheho
Answered Nov 13, 2012

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