Can you fall out of love?

I love my boyfriend, I really do, or at least I did. We've been dating for almost two years, and we've always thought we will end up together. But lately I've been interested in other guys. I actually sort of like another guy. I feel in some ways he's a better fit for me, but in soome ways he's not. My boyfriend is convinced that I'm going to find someone better than him. I thought that was impossible, but now I'm starting to believe it. So my question is, can you fall out of love?
Anonymous14
Asked Nov 12, 2012
Yeah, boys r supposed to dominate (male/dad role)

Your bf has turned into the nurture role in the relationship (female/mum role) so naturally your eyes have turned to other more appropriate males who you feel are a better suit to play the dominate male/dad role.

Unfortunately that is just how it goes, you sound quite young like you haven't been in many relationships but this is how most end up, maybe if you can tell him you need him to be more dominate and he listens it can work, but if not then naturally you will part.
CameDown_HoldUp
Answered Nov 12, 2012
People fall of of love all the time. What's usually happening is that the fairy tale that we've told ourselves about the other person just doesn't hold up to daily reality... Or the other person stops displaying the floor model, and we have to learn to deal with the used car that's actually for sale... Or both.
skyDancer
Answered Nov 12, 2012

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