What do you do when you like your best friend's crush?

Okay so his name is Jacob and I sit next to him in band and I think I'm starting to like him. My bff Taylor likes him deeply and I dont know what to do! I need help. me and Taylor have been friends since 2nd grade. I really dont want to lose her but I really like Jacob. He said he doesn't want a Girlfriend but I've made it obvious to everyone but I've convinced him that it's not like that but it is.
clariceporkchop
Asked Nov 09, 2012
The question at this point is what does he want. If he "doesn't want a girlfriend" that answers your question. Nothing's going to happen for either of you.

If you are really best friends and he shows interest in either one of you, the other should step out of the picture and make another choice. Otherwise that person will lose both her chances with the guy and her best friend too.
Rob
Answered Nov 10, 2012
Well, we had a band fundraiser and it's chocolate and he said" how much chocolate have you sold?" I said" ummm, 17" Then Howard (sit's on other side of me) says how have you sold that many?" I said " it's because I'm so Cute. Cant you tell" And Howard again said "Not too many people would agree" And Jacob Said " hum I beg to differ" so I think he showed interest in me but taylor liked him first
Rob just cause they say doesn't mean the mean it
Kiruse Nov 20, 2012
Can we have a little more info so we can help?
Thanks
Popllolli
Answered Nov 10, 2012
What kind of help that's the situation
Well maybe you should try talking about it but if he has shone interest in one tue other should back
Kiruse
Answered Nov 19, 2012
well is this the same guy like brandon? or is this a different guy cause if he showed intrest and if taylor is your true friend then she would let you have him I understand the feelings girls have it for me all the time and I am not kidding almost evrygirl my age at church liked me at one piont
Kiruse Nov 20, 2012
Well brandon, we dont get too much time any more I moved :(
Oh I am sorry I understand a crush moving away it happen to me when I was nine and I still love her well I wish you the best
Kiruse Nov 22, 2012
No guy is worth losing a friendship.
Lana312
Answered Nov 22, 2012
Don't ruin a friendship over a silly boy! Trust me its not worth it! :(
Helloitsmeilove
Answered Nov 22, 2012

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