Think i've lost my girl and baby.dont know what to do

Cut a long story short....my girl is 8 weeks pregnant now, but last week we had a few disagreements about where to live etc, miner things in my book. I then went away at the weekend on business, and I glanced at Facebook and i'd been deleted. My stomach dropped and stupidly called her right away, no response so I called her work which I know is probably the worst thing I could have done. She texted me shortly after saying calling work was the last straw and she is going to ring the doctors and abort our child, doesnt want us and she's had enough. Since then she has deleted me off everything else (instragram etc). We were supposed to be going to meet her parents next weekend. I responded asking her to calm down and not make a rash decision just because I did something idiotic like calling her at work, and asked if we could talk once I got back. I havent contacted her since in anyway to give her space to think, hoping its the hormones and she'll realise what we mean to each other. I just dont know when to contact her. Saturday morning was the work call. Its now monday and all I do is think about her and our child, then end up crying. I always said I wasnt ready to be a father yet but when she told me on her birthday it just felt right. Strangest thing is its also due on my birthday which must be fate. Maybe i'm clutching at straws but I dont want to lose her or our child. Really dont know why i'm writing this here but really dont know how long to leave it. All I want to do is go see her, call her, go speak to her sister or contact her best friend but i'm thinking that will only push her away right now. Everyone is saying wait until wednesday then just message hey you or something like that to show you are thinking of her. I just dont know what to do. Need to know if she is really going to abort/kill us and our baby. This is killing me right now.
bananas81
Asked Oct 29, 2012
Edited Oct 29, 2012
Both of you should consider that this issue isn't just about your differences, there is a child involved. The child doesn't get a choice and neither does the father. The US Supreme Court has ruled that fathers have no legal rights when it comes to abortion (Planned Parenthood v. Danforth and Planned Parenthood v. Casey).

Your only hope is to make peace with her and try to make her understand your viewpoint.
Rob
Answered Oct 29, 2012

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