How to finger yourself!

I am 12 and I wanna finger myself (just to see what it feels like) and I have put a quarter of my finger in once but I pulled it out coz I was a little scared and worried. How can I keep on putting my finger in but I always stop but how do I keep going? Coz I really want to but I don't if u know what I mean.
LoveVintage3
Asked Oct 24, 2012
if u r 12 u dont need to do that it might feel good but u r to young. young lady the best thing for you to do is go get a book and study instead of rubbing your clit and fingering yourself some of yall need to think before you take risky actions and yall that are 17 and younger dont need to be having sex at that age yall need to wait till about 20 years of age and older not 12 through 17 or 18 I dont care whom your parents are unless they let you have sex and want a grandchild that bad..... well that is all I ave to say thanks and have a great day or night.....
Be careful - as a virgin you have tissue in your vaginal canal called the Hymen. This tissue is delicate, and when it breaks it bleeds. There's a natural opening in the hymen tissue. Just don't force anything.

Some very active girls naturally break the hymen during vigorous sport. Some girls don't break the hymen until the first time they have sex.

If you're gentle and careful, masturbation is a natural, healthy thing. It's also natural and healthy to explore your own body and get to know yourself. Listen to your body, go slowly, and pay attention to any signals your body gives you.

Treat yourself with love, and require everyone else do the same.
mayagayam
Answered Dec 04, 2012
HELLOOO ! its ILLEGAL to Watch Porn under the Age of 18 . Im 14 and I Know That, Plus Your To Young to be Thinking Like That , Ask Your Mom for that Info , Before You End Up TRYING Thing Out and Getting Pregnant !!!!!!
Member
Answered Mar 25, 2013
im 12 too but how do I keep myself from bleeding im just playing with the top of my vagina rubbing it and its great so try it! or watch porn!
tiara
Answered Jan 28, 2013
You can go to jail for watching porn if your twelve..
no you can't.
Or grab a book and study. Those things can wait. Im 17 and I didnt even do those things as a kid. I study or play with my friends. You're "growing up" too fast. Slow down there :p
Just because she master ages doesn't mean she's growing up to fast I mean she's doing it in private for herself and no one else and she not putting any extra padding in her bra and wearing hard core Mac makeup and having sex then getting abortions
Hi! I'm like you! Well I'm 13 but it's only one year so it's not that different. I've actually looked on other sites. Try Yahoo! Answers. That was probably one of the most helpful but anyways, main thing: don't push yourself. If it hurts than don't continue and/or try something more gentle. One of the things that was most suggested was to play with your clit. You know, the little nub at the top of your vagina. But listen to your body for the most part. It's different from person to person. Porn and the clit rubbing didn't work for me but it has worked for others. If you want something more hardcore, stick one or two fingers into your opening and push against the walls of your vagina. Trust me, it feels amazing. Or you could try for your g-spot. Start with one finger and go a the way in. It's going to be like a little indented button. That works too. Oh your going to want to do this on your back with your legs spread out. That's what works best for me. But ultimately, it's your body. Experiment but don't push yourself. Hope this helps.
SYY1999
Answered Feb 20, 2013
I am twelve too but don't know if I should keep fingering myself
picazo
Answered Mar 29, 2013
ok well im 12 too and ive been in ur situation all u have to do it is do it when ur in the tub or shower so ur vagina stays wet and if it still hurts ur vagina is not ready or is tight and to get used to getting fingered just the round part of a pen and stick up there till it hurts or till u get to the point where its at the part where the pen is abot to get to the ink part and then work ur way up to ur finger and then get a frozen hotdog and melt of the ice using water then use that as a fake dick so u get close to the feeling and oonce ur hymen breaks it like having ur period so when it break u will be able to finger and have it without it hurting but yeah good luck :) also when u get ur self to the point where u adore ur fingering to ur yourself if u have a boyfriend and if hes ok with it let him finger u till ur 16 and old enough and or ready for sex ;)
slm
Answered Mar 31, 2013
Edited Mar 31, 2013
I'm 12 also and I really don't no how to finger my self do I just stick my finger ok let me ask u some we have a man in our house do I go in his room and get him to fuck me; or turn him on to me I really want to have sex but I scared I mind get pregrend wat should I do
pussy1
Answered Apr 01, 2013
I think you should wait to have sex and just stick with using your fingers or toys bc if your not ready to have sex then you shouldn't bc I regretted my first time bc I was so young and sex doesn't feel as good as masterbation bc u know your body just as good as anybody else does that's y I stick with masterbation
Annie1 Apr 02, 2013
Annie is rite just wait to have sex ... my suggestions is that u lock ur room door lay on ur bed and watch porn then u will feel urges to touch urself and it normal to . ps touch the places that make u feel good like ur boobies and clit ok
I am 17 years old and I have had sex before and I think masterbation is the best way to go but I use toys also bc I never had the pleasure with just my fingers I have been masterbating since I was prolly 9 or 10 and I still believe that I get a better orgasm with myself better than any guy
Annie1
Answered Apr 02, 2013
u are true bc no1 knows ur body as u
okay so what if that soft tissue breaks do you tell your parents that u started your period and how long does it last?? cause im 12 and I want to masterbate
carter22
Answered May 04, 2013
Okay I'm 13, I've fingered myself a lot before because I love the feeling and its the closest you can get to having sex at this age. What works best for me is pushing down hard and rubbing really fast, that makes me cum but also I can fit 4 fingers into my vagina and its nice just too move them in and out. Also I don't have any toys but instead I use different things like a hairbrush instead if a dildo. You can get hairbrushes in different sizes, I like thick long ones wich I put as far in a possible and them move it around, sit up on it pushing it in further etc... Also sticking in fingers aswell as extra thickness . Just do what's best for you and explore, the first time be careful and try different things to see what works for you
rAnDoM
Answered May 05, 2013
I am 18 and can I just say....you are all nasty as fudge. Don't use a pen- that is extremely dangerous and pointless. Don't use a hotdog-that is just nastyyyy and- again- dangerous; a hotdog can put nasty bacteria and other sorts of stuff up into your vagina and cause serious issues. And for pete's sake DO NOT USE YOUR HAIR BRUSH. NO.

Just wait. You are 12...go play in some dirt. I'm not saying it is bad to touch yourself, go right ahead. But the things most of you are saying is extremely abnormal. You should not be so obsessed and worried over sex issues. Don't wait until a certain age either. Wait until you are comfortable-even if that means waiting until marriage.

Sex can be an amazingggg thing between you and another person and you should wait until you are mature enough to let it be just that. Don't harm your lady parts before a man sees it...how would you explain that to him? lol.

"Oh don't mind my awkward vagina...it just looks that way because i've shoved highlighters, sharpees, hotdogs, hairbrushes, and everything else I could get my hands on up there." That is not a statement any man wants to hear lol.

Please ladies, think about your sexual future and be responsible with your bodies.
thejessygirl
Answered May 12, 2013
Made my day(:
Masturbation is a natural thing, its healthy and it helps you know more about yourself, its normal and usually it starts when your fairly young, some even start at 9, I started at 14 and I have only done clitoral stimulation.

At your age, NEVER get a man to help you with your..err.. Problem.
Okay? :D

Most of the people who answered have said to be gentle and not to force it in, thats true, but if you intend to use a makeshift dildo, put a condom over it so that it cant possibly give you any of those "germs" :D
Singmeasong
Answered 5 days ago
I want to finger my self to. But idk how
2702524079
Answered 4 days ago
Im a 11 bout 2 turn 12 in bout a couple of days n it feels good watchin porn cuz mi vagina feels wierd but good @ dha time but everytime I try 2 finger mi self it hurts lik sumthings blockin it n it hurts bhadd until u get in all dha way but it still burns how do I finger mi self without hurtin mi vagina
Salgado_bhabie
Answered Mar 18, 2013

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