What to do with me wife she left me should I just devorce her? Give her what she wants

Real fast please give me your opinion. I been with this girl 10 months we used to work together I married her 6 months later. we both lost our jobs .3 months later she said she doesn’t feel the same anymore she wants out ! So it was over just like that I moved out .Her excuse I acted stupid drunk on her birthday and I didn’t defend her when my mom was talking crap to her she also said for the past month you knew something was wrong and you didn’t communicate with me .This is the thing my mom likes her but gives her a hard time .I defended her already numerous times already and she has seen it but this is the thing she met my mom drunk the 1st time at the end of the day my wife has to put her part also. She has a child and she has been married once before she is 27 and im 34.I have never been married and I have no children we both have issues . we both have jobs at this time and doing good .The 1st week I tried getting her back pleading and letting her know I will change but she won’t return my call or nothing its been 1 month since we have spoken. I stoped contacting her for 2 weeks but I’m inlove with her .I don’t know what to do we took an oath threw thick and thin . I feel hurt seen she couldn’t deal with the downs in a marriage this sucks. Yes I have issues but she also has issue and I took her in regardless I went and married her with my heart open and eyes shut I want to make it work but she won’t even return my calls or nothing so I stopped calling her or bugging her for 2 weeks and counting. I feel betrayed since she can’t handle little challenges that marriage brings .I also miss her son he is 5 years old at this point im lost on what to do I would love some advice and apologize if I don’t make any since since im using my phone to type this email. One more thing her gay best friend lived with us and he gives her stupid advice . I never trusted him but I didn’t want to separate them since she truly loves him and they will die with out each other but next year in may I was going get my own place and let her know just you and me will move in not your best friend.

Thank you

my honest opinion, it sounds like she has met someone else,it seems like she is making up every exscue to leave u, but I could always be wrong..she is still young and if she has a son that is 5 years old that means she had him when she was 22 and she may not have had time to experience the (fun) part of her young adulthood so that is what she is trying to do right now, your probally in the settling down stage in your life and she is still wanting to go out have fun and party and maybe she thinks u are holding her back from that..this is not a fact, just my opinion..ive seen this scenario many times before.

I agree with Christina1985. There is a good possibility she has met someone else. It's not normal for someone to jump without knowing where they will land.

If your wife has a best friend that holds a higher degree of influence with her than you, the two of you never made it to the level of bonding needed for a lasting relationship. Marriage is a bond between TWO people exclusive to everybody else in the world. In a situation that shaky, add alcohol abuse by both of you, enter your mom stage right and what happened became very predictable.

The only contact I would have with her would be to see if you can work out something so you can spend time with the child to help absorb some of the shock on him. Having parents come and go in children's lives can be very damaging.