I'm a bisexual girl and I have a crush on this girl but idk how she feels.

So I'm 15 and so is my friend. We've known each other for a while now and we're pretty close. We don't have very many classes together so we don't get to see each other a lot at school, but out of school we hang out a ton. I haven't come out yet about my sexuality to more than 5 people so she doesn't even know I'm bi. But I do sometimes flirt with her and do little things like put my hand on her knee or something but I'm getting mixed signs from her. Whenever we do hangout I always end up laying on her lap and she just loves playing with my hair and saying things like "you're hair is so pretty" or "I wish I had your hair" and one day at her house we were just lying on her bed looking up at the ceiling when she turns to me and we start talking about nothing and our faces are like kissing distance and everything got all quiet and I was just staring into her eyes. I wanted to kiss her so badly, but I was too scared. And anyway I got a txt from my mom saying she was outside. But other times she just gives me friend vibes or will scoot away if I go out on a limb and flirt a lot. But then the other day at our high school football game were in a group with our other friends and we were saying out of our group who would make the best lesbian couples and she grabbed my other friend which got me really sad. But when we were walking up a hill at the game 2 guys came over and started flirting with us so she grabbed my hand and said "sorry, taken" and we walked away. She held my hand for another few minutes but then let go. I don't know what to do because I'm so into her and its driving me crazy! PLEASE HELP!!!!!
Teengirl2499
Asked Oct 14, 2012
I know very little about the mind of girl's. so this might not be the best advise (mostly personally option). you seem to really like this girl and I would say she might like you or she has feelings for you that is more then friendship. but maybe she doesn't know her own sexuality yet. I have a friend with a sister that is lesbian and she didn't fully accept it until she was 16. so she could be trying to find it out but gets scared because she doesn't understand the feelings she's having. you could try and talk to her and maybe if your ready tell her that your bisexual, and that you hope this doesn't bother her. if you do so tell her face to face if not she could misunderstand. then give her some time to think it over and ask if you could talk some more about it later after she thinks about it. if she feels the way you think she does then she will in time tell you. but you can ever know until you act. try not to put if off for to long, you don't what to feel this way for so long to find out she doesn't feel the same way about you. I wish you good luck with your choice and hope everything works out ever if it's not in the way you wanted it's better to of acted then not.
ThatGuy
Answered Oct 16, 2012
Well I know the feeling,my boo (which she came up with ) has a boyfriend and she always holding my hand she always telling people that dhe throwing herself at me and she forces me to hug her and wen I dont she gets mad.wen I talk on the phone with her and I tell her I have to go she says she loves me and wen I dont say it back she gets pissed off .ooh and she knows I have feels for her. so anyway we were talking on voxer and I told her tht she was good at acting because she made me believe she liked me and she replyed ...this saying this "r u sure I was acting ". SO WAT DO I DO shes dating my brother
llimj14
Answered Apr 29, 2013

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