There are places that can help you conceive the child of your choice in California and New York. It costs around $20,000. Give or take some. It's expensive, and some people don't like the idea almost like its playing god, or making a super baby. But it's your egg and mans sperm, I say do what you want! Also type in "how to have a boy" on google when you are trying to conceive again. It can give you diets and positions that supposedly will help you conceive the sex you want. I have two boys, so now I want a girl. I'll cross my fingers for you!