How do you ask someone out when you're depressed?

Ok so there's this girl I like, but I'm afraid of asking her since I've never been in a relationship before, and I'm chronically depressed, sometimes I do get bad days where I lash out at people who are close to me and I'm afraid I will do that with her and spoil things. How do I go about this, cause I don't want to be alone forever. She's a good friend too so I'm unsure but I do want to be with her as more than a friend.
Ronin121
Asked Sep 24, 2012
Nothing can be detected without a test,,,just take it easy and talk to her,,,
but,
look u must start to rule that depression bcoz. u r good, u got who u like present near u this alone a good luck,,,then relationship is not something to get afraid of u need only to trust urself if she accept then no problem...
y u r depressed this is what u gonna treat and get rid of the source so nothing will b in further lines.
lash people, u r trying to make some protection don't just face things and c what can cure that with the smile kept in not changed...
My4649
Answered Sep 24, 2012
Edited Sep 24, 2012
depressed don't come to help others in first chance and go to answer Q. just erase that idea u r somehow troubled,,concentrate on them and just through them by the resolve.
My4649 Sep 24, 2012
Alright I see what you're saying, have faith in myself and try not to my depression get to me, lashing out is a problem though, since the precursor to it is my own feelings of isolation.
When I feel ignored I just feel empty and when that happens I fall into a dark mood and its hard to be nice when your world becomes engulfed by your own negativity. I guess I want to know how to avoid feeling alone, since if I could solve the loneliness then everything else would fall into place. I've been under counselling and antidepressants for two years and it hasn't helped, I've also tried CBT and hypnosis but they are only temporary and fleeting fixes.
Feeling lonely zthat after feel that u had a lost wish a lost person or ignorance so each one can be treated only by work on
f someone then change to make the life of others our work so feeling lonely goes away
f a wish then u had 2 trans to another thing by making focus on new goal then brain will try to solve the new problem &goal shifting frm there
fthe ignorance then the theory of having friends zto never depend on others to do ur job smaller nor big then u'll search 4each problem ur self (no way 2 ask others to do it or help)by that u'll feel proud after those jobs &start to act by ur own with time u'll find people come 2 b friend with who don't use them or need them (having good abilities and help others is useful),
but remember that depending on urself never means u stay away but to stand against how hard it is &what ever others said coz.may b ham at the start but at end 'll b OK
My4649 Sep 24, 2012

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