My birthday

It will be my birthday in exactly 2 hours and 2 minutes, but I'm very very sad. Nobody cares about it. My brother doesn't care about me and my mom says I have no excuse to be lazy. I'm not! Why can't I just enjoy my 13th birthday. Only my dad and my grandma seem to understand me. Since my birthday is on a Monday, they tried to celebrate it with me today. I just feel very bad and would like for once in my life to be comforted by somebody who actually understands my pain. Nobody truly understands me in life, not even my friends. To me it seems like I'm nothing to them.
samkwok
Asked Sep 24, 2012
Please allow me to pass an idea along to you that will change your entire life if you can hold onto it. Sometimes it takes a little time thinking about it.

You should see my wife's birthdays. Crowds of people come bearing gifts. Neighbors compete for who gets to take her to lunch. But she doesn't care about birthdays at all.

What she cares about is other people. She's there when they are sick, when they lose a loved one and to listen to their problems. Even if they just need someone to take care of their pets for the weekend, she is always there for them and she's always happy to do it.

The principle works in many more ways than just your personal life. It works in your schoolwork, your job, your church; even on EHelp. Simply put, the principle is that you never get what you want by wanting, what you get is ALWAYS based on what you give. Learn the joy of contributing. Try doing things for your mother and your brother without expecting anything in return and see the magic it can do, not only in the way they deal with you but in how it will make you feel inside.
Rob
Answered Sep 24, 2012
Edited Sep 24, 2012
What Rob said is the best I won't say the good as he did but,,
No, u r important..otherwise what ur mother 'll say not that, but a word of "I don't care go to **** "
ur mom is trying to make some press on u to make u care about ur presence n life,,,
As an advice try to 've the best mark then u'll c how she'll act...
By the way pain is not having no people with u in happy time, but in the problem time...did they left u once at a serious illness??I don't think so...

Just it's somehow the idea of birthday itself is not that much important for elder ,,,by time and hard responsibilities the shine of these things weaker,,

I think it's :) happy birthday,,,
for me once I want to celebrate I just count how many things good I did till that time and make myself a party then I just got surprised by the entrance of others n 2 celebrate with,, just I like 2 b glad my self not others say 2 me...
My4649
Answered Sep 24, 2012
Edited Sep 24, 2012

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