How not to fall in love with a straight male friend, if you are a gay man?

Well, I am a gay man, who does not intend to come out, because I find that the gay lifestyle is indifferent to me. But my problem is that though I am extraverted and talkative and my phone book is full of names, I have a great difficulty in making close friends with other men. Once I really appreciate one's friendship, I start feeling attracted to him sexually, which is awful, because 1. they are straight, 3. I 'm not looking for a boyfriend but for a friend. So, this makes me suspend the relationship or wait the other to take initiatives, even if it is only for coffee. As Paul Lefevre Geraldy has told, "there is much more love in friendship than friendship in a love"; I don't want any more to lose a friend for a lover. Please, help.

We get many questions here from people who fall for someone when there's not even a remote chance that the feeling is reciprocal and it always leads to a downer. Regardless of your sexual orientation, the answer is always the same: Control your feelings until you meet someone who gives you vibes that they feel the same as you do. If you can master that, everything else will fall into place and work out well.

Start to correct ur brain thinking (pardon don't get it wrong keep reading),,,
the feeling is after u feel he is good and appreciate his act then find y he is good start to find the wrong things to destroy the picture of perfection then go on making ur mind focusing on how to be better then him urself this make ur mind trust himself and go on to think of him as a friend to won against not a friend to keep by side - without letting it a war - it's only some plays to make the surround as f it z another one by changing believes and keeping ur mind busy...