I'm young and I don't know if I'm gay or not I am a girl and I think I'm attracted to my best friend

So my best friend we will call
Her B well B is always telling me that if I go bi on her that she will kill me and that to never go lez on her and we were talking about Demi Lovato once and I said I think she likes girls and B was like I don't know how I feel about girls likening other girls vjjs isn't t weird and I was like yah, then when we spend the night with eachother every time we go to bed she wraps her legs around mine, she claims that she needs to do that to go to sleep and she dose it to her bro and me but no one else so I'm 13 and she is 15 but were rlly close and she always tells me about guys and sexual stuff like that she also told me that she thought it was gross kissing her bf one time. She is sporty and girlie and I'm just all sporty

Dosn't sound like she is a lesbian, sounds all innocent, she problli wraps her legs around u cuz she sees u like her sister since she does it with her brother...why do u think ur gay?

Ur young it shouldn't matter what she does to you, trying something new is awesome. And if she does that talking bout boys and sexuality then I guess she wants to try something new. Ur her bff and u never knw. But if u idk if she likes u, flirt with her sometimes and if she flirts back u should get the idea to flirt alot and maybe and just maybe u too could kiss. I dnt knw I'm new at this do what u gotta do.

well if someone says they'll kill you if you go bi or lesbian, they're probably not the person you want to try experimenting with. what they do about it really can hurt- bullying is a very real thing. but you can learn about yourself from the experience and keep that knowledge with you. since you're only 13 though, you're only at the beginning of your sexual development and shouldn't rush into anything. even into adulthood patience and pacing are neccessary parts of any relationship, anyway, so you might as well practice them now.