How do I get my sisters to like me?

I'm the middle sister out of the three of us. All my life my little sister has just annoyed me and almost bullied me, and then my big sister swears at me or just doesn't talk to me at all. I really just want to be friends with them but all they do is their stuff together. Every time I try hang out with them they just ingnor me like I don't even exist. I've tried talking to my parents, but they just tell them to stop, which does not do anything. Or they just ingnor me too. Today, my little sister called me a bully, and now she just hit me. My mum didn't do anything and she was right next to me so what I do now is run upstairs for the rest of the day. I wish there could be a way for people to just realise that I feel hurt right inside me... Any help?
Ellsabells344
Asked Jul 27, 2012
Your littel sister is being just a kid like other kids in her age . I have too sisters too , there twins , and i'm the littel one (15 years old) ! I bother my sister sometimes , but it's for fun that's it . your sister is just kidding with you but in a wird way or let's say in a hard way . let her do that and ignor her . but you should talk with your other sister who's older than the other , tell her that your hurting you a lot with that ignoring and hitting , all of this . tell her to give you more respect and understand each other that's what family always do . If things didn't work out that just ignor them like they do , act like they didn't exist , if one of your siters hit , hit her back , insult you , insult her back , did anything you didn't like do the same ! and go with your friends and hang out with them and forget all the problems . WISH YOU LUCK !
bouchra
Answered Jul 27, 2012
Thx!
welcome :)
bouchra Jul 28, 2012
hi my sister just hit me a bunch of times today and I try hitting her back nut as a joke but then she comes on stronger. but when I tell my mom she just takes my phone away or my laptop. I dont know what to do
I'm the oldest of three girls. When we were growing up, my middle sister and I didn't get along because I thought she was the favorite. Really, our Mom had no favorites, but I didn't have sense enough to know that. I adored my youngest sister because she just seemed novel and cute because of our big age difference, and I didn't think our Mom liked her more. Plus, she looked up to me more than our middle sister. That fed my fragile teenage ego and made me like her even more.

Once I matured a little, I had a heart-to-heart conversation with our middle sister and sincerely apologized for being mean and hurting her so badly and for so long. I was a kid, and just didn't know how to think about anyone but myself. It took a few years of me treating her the way a beloved sister should be treated until the wounds healed and she forgave me.

We're all adults now and very close.

Your situation may just need some years.

I do think you're doing the right think by being aware of your feelings and communicating them to your family.
skyDancer
Answered Jul 28, 2012
i have 2 older sisters their always with each other and keep secrets and they dont tell me anything and it hurnts me soo sooo much I be cryin most of the time and my mum and dad dont care what car I do some 1 plzzz help me I need it alot.
shasha
Answered Sep 19, 2012

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