Plz plz help!

ok I am a bisexual girl.now alot of ma friens know and stuff.but I want to tell at least my mom are someone in my family.i am really scared to tell my mom cuz I already told her some of my friens are like that and she said that is so disgusting and nasty nd stuff she used all kinds of words.she said she cant stand people like tht.and im afraid to tell her cuz she mite not want to say im her daughter any more.shes has said that to my sister whn she tld my mom her first time of having sex with a guy.but this is worse and I rlly dont kno what to do.
smiley263
Asked Jul 24, 2012
Edited Jul 24, 2012
Why would you even consider telling her, knowing how she feels about it? Your question sounds like, "I really want to jump off the cliff but I'm afraid it will hurt when I hit the ground at the bottom." The answer is, DON'T JUMP! :-)
Rob
Answered Jul 24, 2012
Edited Jul 24, 2012
haha thnk.i was just confused.like on if I should tell her.but again thnk.
I agree with Rob. Your mother doesn't sound like a safe confidant. Definitely don't tell her if you are financially dependent on her. There's an organization called Parents, Families, & Friends of Lesbians and Gays that could probably be helpful. (www.pflag.org/) Contact someone there for tips on how to educate your mother over time so that you can eventually tell her who you are and have an open and honest relationship with her. Good luck. It's a tough spot to be in.
skyDancer
Answered Jul 24, 2012
thnk for the website

mothers are sweet , they will never do that to there childerns even if they did a BIG misstake that the mind won't take it serious . don't tell her if you know what whould she feels like efter .
bouchra
Answered Jul 27, 2012
You can tell her if you want, it's not like if she disowns you that it matters, unless you are sensitive about terms like that that have no true meaning.
Z_Sparker
Answered Jun 23, 2013

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