We were good friends for a year and then over the summer she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. We have a mutual friend, who is a guy, who betrayed her and after that she seemed to grow more distant as the last few months of school passed. I even helped her try to figure out why our freind did this. We texted a lot this summer but the frequency lessened every day. She stopped texting for a few days but she eventually said that she didn't want to talk to me. But she said it in a polite way or at least in a way I know she would use to say something hard to someone she didn't want to offend. I am not asking for advice, I just want responses as to why she would do this. I have my guesses but I just want to see if there was an aspect that I didnt think of. I havent changed much since we became friends and the only changes I have made were to make her life more enjoyable. Now it seems like she doesn't even care about me anymore. I don't like her in a romantic way and she knows that. I've even told her I see her as my sister. Girls and women please respond, I don't understand the female mind as much as I would like to. I am a guy if you haven't caught that already.