Why does my friend not want to talk to me anymore?

We were good friends for a year and then over the summer she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. We have a mutual friend, who is a guy, who betrayed her and after that she seemed to grow more distant as the last few months of school passed. I even helped her try to figure out why our freind did this. We texted a lot this summer but the frequency lessened every day. She stopped texting for a few days but she eventually said that she didn't want to talk to me. But she said it in a polite way or at least in a way I know she would use to say something hard to someone she didn't want to offend. I am not asking for advice, I just want responses as to why she would do this. I have my guesses but I just want to see if there was an aspect that I didnt think of. I havent changed much since we became friends and the only changes I have made were to make her life more enjoyable. Now it seems like she doesn't even care about me anymore. I don't like her in a romantic way and she knows that. I've even told her I see her as my sister. Girls and women please respond, I don't understand the female mind as much as I would like to. I am a guy if you haven't caught that already.
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Jul 22, 2012
Edited Jul 22, 2012
For what it's worth, there's something in what you've written that says to me you're giving her unwanted advice. Being a good friend is more often about listening than telling your friend what they should do. A good policy is to only offer others advice when they've asked for it.
Rob
Answered Jul 22, 2012
Good advice, Rob. Giver her space. If you love her like a sister, keep showing it and she'll realize it sooner or later and be your friend again. Then it will probably be better than before
Well I would just suggest that um u would ask what u did and what made her mad. I mean like my friends do that to me too and I just ask what I did,they tell me, I fix it, the we r just fine maybe just try that!!
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Answered Jan 24, 2014

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