Am I lesbian

hi im a 13 year old gal, and I think I love my best friend whos a gal. I no this is probally weird and odd but I have to say it, she say were like sisters and bessies. (maken it even more awkward). I no that in not a lez and I probable wont ever be. I have just been really confused lately. I fancy boys too but I just dont get my feelings right now. I think maybe im getten too close to her.shes nt lez and I could never image me being 1 ether. but in the bk of my head im confuzed if I hav feelings for her or nt. :(
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Jul 21, 2012
Edited Jul 21, 2012
It's not at all unusual for someone 13 years old to be unsure about their sexuality. As you grow older and gain more experience, you will clearly know who you are without any doubt. In the meantime, accept yourself for who you are and don't feel the need to rush into anything. If you experience every year from 13 to 18, you'll do fine. The dangers all lie in jumping ahead into things you aren't ready for.
Rob
Answered Jul 21, 2012
I dont think you're lesbian. This happens to lots of people at that age. Just wait for it to end and you will come out the other side sure of yourself and what you want. If it really concerns you, I would suggest talking to a youth pastor. I know that may sound stupid but my pastor says teens came to him all the time about stuff like that. I can say with some amount of certainty that one near you will have dealt with this before and can help you
ChildOfGod123
Answered Jul 22, 2012
My whole life since I can remember I liked girls, and like others I fell for a girl at school, I eventually told her and she totally tortured me, and told everyone. No one at school said anythin to me, I never lost friends, people still spoke to me at the te the feeling of rejection was hard but my life didn't end, I ended up gettin with her like a year later...she came onto me, feeling are crazy and weird, if you are gay you'll know deep down even if you deny it to yourself, I used to cry a lot but it gets easy, don't let people mess you about, or tell you your wrong, if its a phase your future boyfriend will love this ;)
Helpme91
Answered Jul 24, 2012
I really like your answer man :) At least you were honest and didn't care what others thought.
I dealt with the exact same thing, I don't know if you know, but It's EXTREMELY common for people to feel like that in our age group. I'm 12, but I still know what you feel like. Hormones and things like that pop in LOL :P But yeah don't even worry about it, It happens to pretty much everyone. Your probably not Lesbian, but thinking about that is not wrong AT ALL. everyone has thoughts. If you have feelings for her, Good For You :) As long as you're happy and feeling good, then you're in a good place. Just have fun, don't worry about it. This is coming from a 12 year old guy.
Sugaman90
Answered Aug 20, 2012

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