Idk what to do. Should I come out or not?

I'm 16 years old and A Bisexual girl. I've realized that I Was officially gay when I hit 8th grade. It's not a phase and I'm sure of that. I'm attracted to both sexes and I'm proud of it. Love has no gender boundary. At my school i'm openly gay. My teachers know it, my classmates know it and my friends know it. They accept me for who I am and I love it. The sad part is that NO ONE in my family knows and now that I'm about to be a junior in highschool I feel like they should know but I'm not sure if I'm ready yet. I'm afraid that my parents wont accept it especially my father. But I need to tell someone in my family i've been hiding this for too long and its not right. I Want to at least tell my older sister since I'm the closest with her. She's really open minded but idk how she would feel.I'm scared and anxious because I want to let her know but Idk how to tell her or when to tell her. Please help.
Sameoldshiz
Asked Jul 07, 2012
I'm glad you asked, that's not soemthing that you should just keep in, or just letting it flow out to everyone. You should tell someone that you trust deeply. Not like one of your friends or some immature person. Most likely an adult. You should be proud for feeling that way, most people don't have the guts to even realize it. Tell them at a good time, like when they're all relaxed and not upbeat, worried, or having problems themselves.

Hope for the best, and hope I helped.
Sugaman90
Answered Jul 07, 2012
But she has already told it to everyone except her family, so it is not about telling it to and adult rather than a friend etc.
Otherwise I agree with you, Sugaman.
And maybe she`d feel better if she reveals this to her sister first, as after that they could both discuss how and when would it be better to tell this to their parents.:)
Thank you both for the advice. It really helped me. Now I'm just waiting for the right moment to tell my sister. :) Wish me luck

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