Why doesnt anyone like me?

I try and try but people just end up hating me and to me it seems like out of the blue. Like for example my first ex boyfriend I gave hi the world been nice cooked I nagged a little but I tried to keep it under control ok but for some reason it like My recent boyfriend broke up with me and Idk what I did wrong. I did everything for him changed most of who I am. All because I asked him for one day off work to spend time with his family. me and his son because I missed him but I kept asking him everyday in many diffrent forms but for some reason now hes just cursing at me rolling his eyes n they want nothing to do with me even tho I tried to be a loving person. Am I too nice? or idk even most of my friends jus dont talk to me anymore or want to hang out and Idk if its something Im doing without realizing it or idk but Honestly all im doin is being nice. ??? Am I on the wrong? 0.0 my recent boyfriend went from giving me the world to giving me the middle finger. I do flip out on certain things said wrong to me that offend me but I tell them straight up if anything like that occurs just sit down and calmly talk to me about it and I will hear you out but instead they just shun me away am I doing something wrong?

So sorry ur having a hard go of it. It's hard to say what's going on without seeing with the other people. I can see why u think it's u since ur the common trait. What do u think about spending some time alone and having a good think for a while?

If ur giving urself to relationships where u feel u have to change to please someone and feel u don't get the same love u give, the something is really wrong. Unfortunately, I know this from experience. Look for patterns. Think about how u pick out guys.

A therapist has been good for me to see the patterns that lead to bad relationships. Maybe that could be helpful. U can use crisischat.org to chat thru things. They're great when I need to talk out things I feel silly talking to people I know.

be yourself,do not change you for other.

why is everyones 1st response an apology. its like someone died. i'm sorry but sorry doesnt fix anything -Nada nothing zilch and I can almost hear the condecending tone in it like everyone is supposed to be so flipping happy all of the time and to be unhappy is such a travesty and frankly a little freakish - freak! I am going through the same thing. I think people truly dont like truth anymore, even if i'm talking about me and they deffinately dont want to hear the truth about them. I have begun to use extreme stretching and yoga to deal with it. when I get the anxiety feeling that know one gives a crap I just try to use the pain of stretching to replace the emotional pain I am feeling. yeah, i'm kinda checking out but its like i'm stretching out a bunch of negativity and reaching for the truth and i'm sorry but the truth usually isnt pleasant or it seems to be so unpleasant anymore that no one is willing to deal with it or even listen to it because the truth makes me responsible for my own actions and then I have look at the turmoil I cause for other people and sometimes that causes me guilt. I recently realized that I am able to justify most of my behavior even if I know its wrong and it scares me a little that I have that ability. so stretch it out is my only advice I guess - sometimes i'm so lame it hurts!

take advantage of the truth, spend time alone, grow, and love urself... "i got 2 left legs and 2 left feet but I love me more than I love you, because thats the only way I can get you to love me like I do"... make the right choice