Mixed Signals

Okay so I told this girl that im in love with that I liked her (im also a girl) and shes okay with it were still good friends but ever sence I told her shes been acting differnt. Texing me all the time sending me hearts and smiley face all the time, were always telling one another that we love eachother and shes always telling me her life would being nothing without me and that I mean alot to her and stuff like that. And I told her monday that I was going to hug her (because she was really upset this weekend) and she keeps saying she cant wait with hearts and smiley faces and sometimes winky faces. And everytime I look at her now shes stareing at me and smileing at me all the time. She told me that im worth everything to her...Im a little confused here she dident start acting like this till I told her how I felt oh yeah shes straight by the way...so whats going on? What does this mean?
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked May 06, 2012
This is confusing to me too. Why would you tell a straight girl that you like her? It's extremely unlikely that a relationship would develop if you're fundamentally incompatible. Either she's not so straight, or you're reading her cues wrong and seeing what you want to see instead of what's there. The only way to know for sure is to have an honest conversation with her. Tell her you're confused by her signals and would like her to clear things up for you.
skyDancer
Answered May 06, 2012
I posted something a while back ago about this and was told I should tell her so I
did that and because it was seriously stressing me out.
I nearly died from embersement but we've gotten through it but like I said she's
acting diffrent now. Even my friends agree so I'm not just seeing things how I want, because even if she did feel the same way I don't think I want to be with her, I don't want to risk our friendship.
Then there's your answer. It doesn't matter what it means. You don't have to analyze her every move. You're friends, not flirting potential gfs.
Ok. I didn't see your other question. Generally speaking, don't let your heart get too far in front of your head. Try not to totally fall for a girl unless you know she's bi/les. Otherwise, you're really setting yourself up for heart ache. You can't "turn" anyone, so you'd put yourself in a position to hope for something that could never be. That doesn't turn out well, and it hurts.

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