My best friend wants to have sex with me.i kinda dont feel its right.

am friends with this guy for 2years... and hez become a real close and best friend... he was like a brother to me... buh over the few days hez started saying things like he's getting attracted to me.. and he cant control himself... I am already in a relationship... am afraid to say no also cause I dont wanna loose his friendship... :(
stacy
Asked Apr 27, 2012
Fear of losing a friend is no reason for getting involved sexually. His behavior is that of someone who is only concerned for himself, not that of a friend. A real friend will consider what you want also. Tell him absolutely not and if he can't deal with that he's surely not a friend.
Rob
Answered Apr 27, 2012
I totally agree!
This feeling that you have in your stomach when you think you have to have sex with him to keep his friendship... Remember that feeling. That's a warning sign. Don't do anything that makes you feel this way. Anytime you feel afraid to have sex, DON'T DO IT.
skyDancer
Answered Apr 27, 2012
its ok love is more strong then friendship
vegeta
Answered Jun 12, 2012
What? I think it's the other way round.
Explain to your friend that you wish to remain friends with him but cannot have sex as you are committed to someone else.
MohitMago
Answered Feb 12, 2013
trust your gut, which it sounds like you're doing. trust that little inner voice that tells you that it's not a good idea, at least for the moment, or, maybe even never. stay on the local train and don't get on any express trains.
rodrigo1974
Answered Dec 31, 2015
Edited Dec 31, 2015

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