Need help please comment . :/

1. is having a boyfriend a good thing.??
2. well iwanna know if its gonna change my life .?
3. what well my mom say.?
4. is my dad going to try to beat him up if am dating behind my parents back.?
5.what will my friends say about him.?
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Feb 24, 2012
1. It depends on who he is. if hes a good person, sure. but if hes not, then no.
2. having a mutual partner changes things. it depends on how far u guys take things. probably, yes, but not in a drastic way.
3. well, if ur 18 or older, its ur choice. if not, it once again depends on who the guy is and wat ur mom thinks of him.
4. dating behind ur parents back is NOT a good thung. believe me, if u dont tell them, theyWILL find out. unless ur dad has anger issues, or is extremly protective, he probably wont.
5. I cant really answer this cuz I dont now ur friends but they will probably say different things depending on the guy.
hope I helped. good luck
bobb1358
Answered Feb 24, 2012
I agree.
How old are you? Your parents might approve and they might not, but that depends on the boy, how old you are, and how you behave around him. I can't really give you a satisfactory answer because I don't know the boy or you. So I have no idea how your friends and family will react.
whocares
Answered Feb 24, 2012
Edited Feb 24, 2012
We aren't born with the social skills needed to choose a partner and live happily ever-after. They have to be learned. Having a boyfriend is part of the learning process and is a good thing if done in the right way.

Your life will change eventually when you go out in the world on your own. That's why you need to learn how to handle relationships. Mom and Dad won't be with you forever.

Nobody can predict how your parents will react but a lot of it will depend on how you do it. If you do it behind their back they will react a lot worse than if you deal with them honestly. Have your boyfriend over to meet your parents and let them get to know each other. If you can make him part of the family group, they will accept him. If he is unwilling to deal with your parents or you don't want that, then you're setting yourself up for problems .

What your friends say doesn't matter. What matters is that you and your boyfriend learn to deal with each other in an honest and respectful way. Relationship are between the two of you alone.
Rob
Answered Feb 24, 2012

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