Does she like me or not?

idk what to do about this situation, once I was looking through profiles I saw a girl and decided to write to her and she didn't reply, then one year later I tried one more time I just felt sth really strong like some kind of connection, and she did answer this one. I fancy her cuz she's into the same hobbies and we're both bikers and I managed to talk to her and she called me twice we had a very interesting conv, then we were supposed to meet and I was going throu some problems in life and I told her I had sth to do but we were still in touch then I messaged her and she cut it short like she didn't want to be in touch anymore but then a couple of months down the track I tried one more time and she agreed to go on a biking trip with me. I took to liking her a lot.. but she was indifferent I guess and them we emailed each other now and then but the second trip we went on after 3 months and we spent 2 days togther and after that she kinda ignored me I mean she always anserws my emails but I almost never write to her and I also didn't call her .. cuz I feel like she has life on her own (she lives 3 hrs away ) and recently like we haven't spoken for 2 months and I had a dream about her we were together in that dream holding hands and kissing I felt this bond so intensively and one day after this dream she emailed me asking for a trip... idk what to do I wanna start thinking about other ppl and get into relantioship with them but I all this time can't get her out of my mind...should I cut her off totally just to stay away from those disturbances?
storianer
Asked Feb 22, 2012
How do you expect to keep her attention when you don't call her for months? People who like someone also like to hear from them. Call her every day just to see what's going on with her. If she likes you she will be happy to hear from you. If you sense the increased traffic is becoming a burden on her, she doesn't like you. If this is going anywhere the two of you have to get from monthly to daily at least.
Rob
Answered Feb 22, 2012
Thx Rob, your answer acutally made me realize she isn't interested cuz before we even me the first time sth happened and she was no longer interested in texting, like I wrote she cut it short, only the fact she went on a trip with me twice made me wonder that maybe but I guess i'm just leading myself away with that cuz I sensed this increased traffic she could cut off again and i'm even afraid to give it a go but what did this dream mean, I felt like she might have been thinking about me..
If she was thinking about you, her actions don't seem to say those thoughts were about ramping up your friendship to another level.
Rob Feb 22, 2012
so do u think I should cut her off and give up on that trip as it's never going to go where I want it to ... and she's gonna just distract me from the real thing that one day may come in my way?
You and I may be different. I'm very forward. I would do the trip and ask her in a smiling, non confrontational way, "I really enjoy the time I spend with you. Do you think we could ever be more than traveling buddies?" If you're going to write her off anyway, what have you got to lose?
Rob Feb 22, 2012
well that's a good approach, I should be more forward too, idk why I always let hope die away slowly rather than kill it with one question and get it over and get a life
i can help you.
nikkibibaby
Answered Feb 23, 2012

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