I dont know what to do! I need help

me and my bf have been going out for over a year im 16 and he is 20. He recently moved like 3 hours away from me and we dont see each other very often. we talk online all the time until about 2 weeks ago we fell out over something stupid and he now ignores all my texts and has blocked me on msn and facebook I dont know what to do? I think we must have broken up but its so hard getting over him because he wont talk to me? also I have feelings I think for another guy but im not sure if I should make a move or not because of ,my "bf" please help
b3xyb33
Asked Feb 19, 2012
Do nothing.

Maybe he finally figured out that in most places a 20-year-old can serve jail time for "dating" a 16-year-old. At any rate, he's definitely ended the relationship and you should move on. Don't make the second guy your consolation prize. Rebound relationships are the worst. Don't pursue another relationship until you are completely over the too old guy... and generally when you don't know who you like, what's really going on is that you don't like either one "enough."
skyDancer
Answered Feb 19, 2012
He couldnt serve jail time its legal in my country for us to date :3 and the second guy isnt my consolation prize! I understand how it seems so but I really think im in love with both it may sound stupid but yeah :L I feel like I want to move on from the 1st guy but I cant because it hasnt officially ended :(
b3xyb33 Feb 20, 2012
Ahh, I see. You've made several attempts to talk to him. He hasn't responded in 2 weeks. It sounds like he has ended it by not talking to you for that length of time. I don't think you owe him anything. Decide what you think is a respectable amount of time to wait to date the other guy. If you think that time period is 2 weeks, then go for it. Don't let guy #1 have the power to keep you hanging in limbo.
Thank you :) I think im just gonna move on from the first guy I cant let him hold me back! im going to get to know the second guy and see what happens from there :) thank you :)
b3xyb33 Feb 21, 2012
bueno amigo para que una relacion marche bien es necesaria la comunicacion en cuanto a lo que refieres ,pienso que para que no te conteste los mensajes y te haya bloqueado en su msn y en el face tiene que haber una razon ,te diria que si tienen contactos comunes utilises uno de ellos no cualquiera sino algien a quien conosca bien a ambos la otra alternativa seria ir a verlo
betoruzC
Answered Feb 19, 2012
in english? aha
b3xyb33 Feb 19, 2012
copy wat she said. google google translate and paste it on there. it will translate into english
i did but google translate sucks so it doesnt do it accuratly :L
b3xyb33 Feb 20, 2012
It may not be google translator. Writings that have a lot of slang and colloquialisms don't translate well via any software.
Rob Feb 20, 2012
true and yeah I think she has used a lot of slang so I dont know what shes saying!
b3xyb33 Feb 20, 2012
it sounds like your broken up you have to try to get over him but itll take some time get to know this other guy you might just find a way to get over your boyfriend it may be selfish but its true
:)
liliblitz17
Answered Feb 21, 2012
ah yes thank you :)
b3xyb33 Feb 22, 2012
mayb its time to move on maybe, trust me, im still dealing over my ex dumping me for no reason, (or none that he told me) and I know its hard but hey, im seeing another guy and hhe makes me feel like im alive again so maybe moving on is the best thing :)
Tim_Tam
Answered Feb 23, 2012
yeah I suppose it is the right thing to do :) thanks :)
b3xyb33 Feb 23, 2012

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