I'm still in love with this guy?

Ok, so, I was going out with my boyfriend and we'd been together for just over a year (I'm 16 now, so that was kinda a big deal). Then I met this guy. When I first saw him he looked at me and said 'Hello, gorgeous' and he had this really amazing accent and he was really, really good looking. So I just said hi and then ran up to see my brother. We then, a little later that day, started talking and it turned out he lived in the flat opposite my brother, literally about 2 metres from him. We talked a bit and I asked him about himself and he said where he was from and he kind of asked me out by saying 'you like movies, right? We could go see a movie and have a drink, yes?' and I just laughed and asked him how old her was and he said '22, how about you?' and I just looked at him and said 'I'm 16' and his eyes went really wide and he just said 'this is ok, we can chat, we can chat'. So we talked a bit more, and a bit later on, I was sitting in the garden of the flat and he sat next to me and then he just looked at me and said 'can I kiss you?' and I just said 'no!!' but I don't think I sounded very sure because he said 'give me one good reason' and I said 'my boyfriend' and he just looked at me and said 'that's sad for me. Think about it, ok?' and then he walked away.
I saw him 2 days later at my brother's flat again (in the time I didn't see him, I thought about him constantly). He was really happy to see me and everytime I caught his eye it made my heart beat really fast. Anyway, he walked past me as he was coming out the flat and I was going in and he caught hold of me and put his hands on my waist and said 'hey, where are you going?' but I was scared that my brother/other people in the flat were going to see so I just looked at him and said 'no.' and he just shrugged and walked away. I sat next to him in the garden and he just said that I was confusing because I obviously wanted him, but I wouldn't kiss him so I just told him that I was scared.
That evening, I was coming out my brother's flat and he was going into his and I just smiled at him and he shrugged again so this time I thought, I better go for it, otherwise I would regret it. So I took a step towards him and he pulled me closer and kissed me and I swear it was the most exciting and amazing thing ever.
It took me 6 months to break up with my boyfriend and in that time I thought of this other guy constantly. I still do even though this happened last April. We've seen each other since and we've kissed and done some other stuff, but I know that he doesn't care about me, he's just a bit of a player. My friend's want me to be with him, but they don't realise that there is genuinely not a hope in hell that he likes me. I mean, I got my hopes up because one time after I saw him and we kissed and stuff, he set his facebook status to 'fallen in love with an angel. is she the one?????' but now I know better than to get my hopes up again. I just want to know if anyone knows any way I can get over him because I just genuinely need to stop thinking of him. It's so painful!! Any help would be greatly appreciated and I'm sorry this is so long!

Take your time. Go slowly. If you are not secure with this then don't rush into it. Eventually you'll know.

I think maybe you should stop "hooking up" randomly that definatly wont help you get over him alternatly you could try talking to him and seeing how he feels about you or you could tell him how you feel about him. overall I think you need to either totally cut him out or let him in and see where it takes you. to be honest it sounds as though you dont really know him but the overwhelming feeling of someone attractive and older than you wanting to kiss you blinds you and makes you want him because he is different and mysterious. well I hope I helped a little :)