Should I say yes?!

I have been talking to this boy on bbm for a while and we have become close, yesterday he asked me out! I want to say yes (i think) but I don't want everyone knowing escpecially my parents! I don't want to say yes incase they (my parents) find out, it would just be akward! What should I do?!
Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Feb 10, 2012
Unless you want to learn everything the hard way, include your parents in what's going on in your life. Before dating him, invite him over and let them get to know each other. A guy that's unwilling to deal with your parents has the wrong motives and they will become a problem further down the road. The parents test is a great way to avoid that.
Rob
Answered Feb 10, 2012
I think the answer really depends on why you want to hide that you're going out with him. There is a big difference between simply wanting privacy and being ashamed... And I agree with Rob.
skyDancer
Answered Feb 11, 2012
If the boy is really nice and is what they would like to see then they probably wouldn't have any problem with you going out with him. If he is in trouble with the law or anything like that, then I would advise you to say no. Not just because of your parents but because of your own safety. If he is having trouble in school then your parents may not approve, but the only way to find out would be to tell them.
whocares
Answered Feb 10, 2012
It depends on how old you are and what are we talking about.
They are always 2 sides to the story.
Is the boy sweet?
Is the boy not a good boy?

maybe the boy is of different race and your folks are wanting you to stick to the same race.
If that is the Case go out with him and your parents are wrong.

So it's up to you.
If your older than 18 do what u want.
If your parents do not like him cuz of culture, etc than date him
If your parents do not like him cuz they know hes a bad boy so say no!

Your choice.
mysteryshepherd
Answered Feb 15, 2012
I'm 14
first you have to ask he loves you if he says yes than you ask he would always be yours forever if he says yes then never to think extra you must go with him.if his answer is no.then its up to you.
totolorry
Answered Feb 15, 2012
u dont commit to someone just because they say that. do wat rob said.
Bobb1358 has it right on! "I love u forever" means nothing! Anyone who says that is not rooted in reality, so the foundation of the relationship is not on firm ground. That's the sort of thing only immature people with no life experience say and then wonder why their parents treat them like they dont know anything. Those words are a warning sign. 50% of US marriages end in divorce. The number of teen and preteen relationships that last for life is fractional.
exactly
I agree with everyone else. A lot of people who come on here with problems are the ones who fell for the "I love you forever" without knowing the person that well.
So true.

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