I'm a muslim girl in love with a girl , how to convince her that God will not burn us?!

Hi, i'm a 20 years old girl, I fell in love with another girl , she's 19 and we are both loving each other on a crazy way since 6 months ago. we are so madly in love , but the problem is that we are both muslims and she recently read that its not allowed for two girls to fall in love and have a relationship including sex, so she decided to stay friends not lovers, honestly , I adore her and we can't live without each other. Suppose that God considered it as a sin , then why he let us fall in love in this way ? I asked her she said , she's so confused and don't know what to do maybe God is testing us if we are good or not. honestly i'm so in love with her and I don't believe its a sin because not all of the Islam denied it , they just explained it in how they understood it according to there visions .. I'm so lost and I wanna know what to do , I adore my love .. but how can I convince her that we will not go to hell ? :( please help me

Each of us makes our own choices and we must bear the consequences of what we choose. Quite often what we choose not only affects ourselves, it affects our families and others around us. Your friend is struggling with whether she wants to accept your theory or what her faith has taught for 1200 years. That's a heavy-weight decision.

If you really love her you will give her the time and space she needs to make her decision on her own and accept whatever she decides. If you rush her into your ideas, you risk taking the blame for her lifetime of guilt. It's her decision to make and her's alone.

Here is some info from Safra, and organization for lesbian and bisexual Muslim women. Also, check out their website and/or contact them for more resources and support.
http://www.safraproject.org/sgi-intro.htm