So is this just how she is?

Okay well today, we had to go to the gym for an announcement. I'm a girl, and my bestfriend (who I'm attracted too and is a girl also) comes over and sits with me. At first we just sat their and then, she started writing things like 'I love you' on my leg and everything. A couple minutes before we had to leave she sat on my lap and laid back where her head was right under mine. From what I see she doesn't do that with any other girl. It seems like she acts totally different. & Two nights ago, I spent the night with her and she told me to hold her, so I did, and I kept my arm around her the whole night. We were also holding hands on and off before that. She says she's straight but I don't believe it or maybe I just don't want too. &She would always ask me to hold her hand, and whenever we take pictures (standing up) she would put her hand on my butt and ofcourse I would do the same. (; . So is this just the way she is or do I have a chance with her?
ConfusingStuff
Asked Jan 27, 2012
Edited Jan 27, 2012
Oh, Rob has a great saying that I can never remember... The next time she does something like this say, "If you keep messing with the bowl you're gonna get some sugar." Maybe Rob will chime in to correct me... The point is to find a way to talk to her about what's going on. Until you are sure of her intentions, be careful with your feelings so you don't get your feelings hurt if she is not into you that way.
skyDancer
Answered Jan 29, 2012
i love robs sayings. I agree
"If you want some sugar just ask or else don't be messing with the bowl."
Rob Jan 29, 2012
good one rob
Yeah! That's it! Thanks. I'll remember it one day...
I don't get to use that line as often as I once did. :-)
Rob Jan 30, 2012
You have a VERY good chance with her. She is definately not completely straight by her actions and she definately likes you a lot. But don't rush into anything immidiately. If she says that she is straight she may actually believe that and be in somewhat of a denial about her being bisexual or lesbian. Wait and see what happens.
whocares
Answered Jan 27, 2012
That really helped boost my self consciousness about the situation. (:
i think whocares is right. dont go to quickly though. ull do fine. also. were did u get the name whocares.
ty. I just made my name up. I use it everywhere online.
ahh. ok. yw
i think she likes u a lot she prob trying to see if u like her or maybe try to see if youll make a move. she might say shes straight cuz she doesnt wanna believe shes bi or les but somewhere in her mind she likes u and I think u should flirt back with her and see if anything happens hope it all works outt :)
lover92
Answered Jan 29, 2012
thank you. (:
youre welcomee
lover92 Feb 12, 2012
Go 4 it
mysteryshepherd
Answered Jan 30, 2012

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