I am turkish and I am in love with an english girl

and she is in love with me too but the problem is money.both of us dont have money.and she had dirty idea.she asked me to work in strip clup for to earn money for us.i said her definetly not.cos it will be dirty money and I dont wanna live my all life with that shame.we had long time together without money and we never makes problem to it untill she gone to england.when she gone to england she had this dirty minds.but she keep telling me she will do it for us.she wanna buy a house and shop with it money and she will take me to england.i dont want it to be like that.what can I do I dont know.i dont want her show her body to anyone.its very big shame for me.what can I do I dont know.i dont have money to go to england for stop her.i wanna die really.i really love her very much.is there anyone wanna help us.
erhan
Asked Jan 27, 2012
It sounds like there are fundamental differences in your thinking like both of you feel you are in control. In western nations, women are allowed to decide what they want to do the same as men. I would try to get that issue straight from where you are now rather than travel to England only to learn you can't deal with the transition she may have undergone.
Rob
Answered Jan 27, 2012
~ No reason to feel like your dieing
~ I do believe she needs to make money the honest way.
~ But I am not judging anyone. If she feels that is ok, than that is up to her and her god.
~ Maybe you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel about it.
~ Work out a way, you both can get the cash you need to see each other.
~ A way that you both agree with.
~ Also you really have to do what works also.
~ So much pressure on money now a days, it's crazy and too much!
~ I hope I helpped Good Luck My friend.
~ Do not be scared to asked more questions.
mysteryshepherd
Answered Jan 27, 2012
Even though the two of you love each other very much, it sounds like you do not share the same values. It is difficult to make a relationship last when your values are so different. You two might need to have a serious talk about if you can be together. Even though you love her, maybe she is not the woman for you.
skyDancer
Answered Jan 27, 2012
Well maybe discuss this with her talk about your morals and try to find a honest living like I used to live in England and cashiers got paid well I am shire or she could try something simple but pays well and I am sort but I wouldn't know about Turkey
Kiruse
Answered Nov 20, 2012
Get a job. Or you can do her idea. Your choice.
Bunny123
Answered Oct 19, 2013
u hav to earn money somehow if u wanna survive in this world.. And no work is big or small.. just look up to how capable u are.. what you can do on the basis of your capability in order to earn.. you will definitely find a way.. you have to do somethin yourself remember no one z gonna feed you.. be mature and find out a way! :)
Girl_57
Answered Mar 22, 2014

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