How can I help my wife to not be self-conscious about her hairy butt?

My wife has hair on her buttocks. I know women are supposed to have hair around the anus, and in the buttcrack, which she does, but she also has hair on her buttcheeks. Its thick and dark and covers quite a bit of her buttcheeks, and is very noticeable. I've never talked to her about it because I'm worried it would embarrass her, and I know she is very self-conscious about it. When I first found out she had a hairy butt, I was surprised because I didn't know it was possible for a woman to have that much hair there. I think it may be that she has a higher testosterone level than most women. Also she is Italian.
Whatever the reason for the extra hair, I never let it bother me, she is my wife after all, and I love her dearly, and find everything about her to be beautiful (including her butt). I've gotten used to it, and I actually find her hairy butt really cute and sexy now. How can I talk to her about it to let her know that it really isn't a big deal, and to help make her feel more sexy and confident?


Anonymous User
Anonymous User
Asked Jan 21, 2012
Gee, I'm trying to think... I'm heavier than I was when my husband and I got together (I'm losing weight now) and I'm trying to think of how I would want him to bring up my weight issues since this is kinda sorta similar... and I can't think of a good answer to that.

Maybe think about how she signals that she doesn't feel sexy and confident and address those specific points. What signals does she send? What does she say that makes you think she feels this way?
skyDancer
Answered Jan 21, 2012
Wait... Not to pry, but this is fixable without an invasive procedure. It's just hair. I mean... If she wasn't ok with it, couldn't she shave it or wax it, or have it sugared, or lasered, or get electrolysis? There are tons of options in a wide range of prices. if it effects her self-esteem and confidence why doesn't she remove it if she doesn't like it?
There's no way you can bring it up without making it sound as if there is something wrong or at least, something unusual about it. If what you write is actually how you feel, why do you have to say anything at all? The best way to make her feel good about herself is to accept her as she is until she brings it up and then say, "Don't change that, it's the sexiest thing about you!"

Rob
Answered Jan 21, 2012
Edited Jan 21, 2012
Sorry to say, but I agree that is an easy thing to fix if she's the one with the problem with it. If she really didn't like it, she could just keep it shaved and could have kept you from knowing anything about it in the first place. I wasn't trying to be rude.
BrightStar
Answered Jan 21, 2012

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