How should I move on?/dated a guy for 4 years .i used to think tht he was perfect guy for

how do I move on???????????? I dated a guy for 4 years .i used to think tht he was perfect guy for me. I used think we were the perfect couple in the whole world but now tht he is gone abroad for further studies .things r not as the same as it used coz he hardly keeps in touch wid me .wen I call him out and ask whether he is in relationship or not? he curtly responds me n doesnt speak much.its really obvious tht there isnt any future of us .but then its so difficult to accept the truth coz I love him. how should forget him?i feel like im emotionally gone and I feel like I have lost the ability to sense anything for anyone else the more I think of letting him go I feel like my world is caving in.how should I move on????????//how do I get him out of head? im having a break up sickness.well I guess its my mind tht messed me up
alley
Asked Jan 18, 2012
Lets just say there is more than one perfect guy for you :)
Having been through this myself over the past six years, a part of moving on is accepting you cannot control situations or people if they dont acknowledge you then this isnt what you want (then you are worth more!!...??? Dont you think). Ditch him and let him go - your own happiness isnt dependant on someone who doesnt want anything to do with you. You will lose that empty feeling and oneday the beautiful rose in your heart will open up again!! You will know its an exciting time that your ready to meet someone new, until then keep + and take care the best is around the corner!! You just cannot see if yet!!
seanjay Feb 07, 2012
One time it took me 2 years to get over this girl and It's been 5 yrs now she still crosses my mind. I have dated other people, but she was the one who got me the most.

Here some things you can try:
I. Realize time heals the broken heart.
II. Keep busy with things you like to do.
III. Hang out wih good friends.
IV. Date other guys.

I know it's hard and I am sorry. They is nothing else you really can do, but just work through it. You see when time passes.
mysteryshepherd
Answered Jan 18, 2012
a lot of people (if not everyone) goes through this feeling... just remember that he does not hold your happiness! remember also this world is filled with over 2298342983 people! there is for sure another guy (s) out there for you and think of it as a good experience rather than a loss. you are lucky you got to experience this relation and now its time to free yourself =)
nagdalo
Answered Jan 18, 2012
I Totally Understand You ! I Was With This Guy I Knew For Like Eleven Yearss . For Like Almost A Year , Yeah Its Not A Long Time Like 4 Yearss , But He Took A Big Part Of My Life . Itss SoO Hard To Get Over Him . Worse Enough , We Got Together On Valentine's Day ! So Every Freaking V Day Imma Have To Remember His Butt ! Anywayy (: My Advice To You Is To Do Stuff To Keep You Busy , Nd Try Dating Other Guys ! (: IF YOU CAN ! Cause I Know I Cant :\
SheDGAF
Answered Apr 14, 2012
thnk u guys for the lil help
Alley77
Answered Apr 29, 2013

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