Is this girl lying to me?

Alright so I fell for my bestfriend who goes to Clemson University. She is amazing and she has always been there for me no matter the situation. Over christmas break I decided to tell her how I really feel about her and after telling her she told me that she really liked me too. She told me that she has liked me for a while now and she never thought I would ever like her. So after talking awhile we decided to continue to be friends and not date yet due to distance (she goes to Clemson University while I am at Auburn University). The issue is she claims that she really likes me and stuff like that but she goes out all the time and parties with a bunch of guys and she still talks to her ex boyfriend who stalks her (No joke he drives by her house at night to see if anyone is over there). Basically im just concerned that she really doesn't really like me and is lying about all this stuff.

It is almost impossible to tell. You do have reason to be suspicious, but personally I think that you shouldn't be too concerned. Just make sure that you see her sometimes and keep in touch. Unfortunately if she does not like you then there is not much you can do but to move on.

Wait and see if you and her develop a strong relationship for eachother, just because she goes out to parties doesen't mean she can't date you, but I would be a little concerned about her talking to her ex, but yet there could be other reasons for that too, so the morale of this comment is, if she doesen't develop a strong relationship with you, it most mean she is not intrested. Hope this helps!

Of cause you are concerned. And of cause she likes you! Like you said, you are friends for a while now. The question is, if she likes you the way you want her to. Now think. Who of you came up with that "lets not date" stuff. If you feel it came more from her then from you, then she might like you a lot but not .... a looooooooot. That my friend means nothing but you have still work to do. Be nice and patient. Charming... but no presure. Let her know that there is somebody that will be there for her. And you will see that she will reconsider. Yes, ok...if she is out on party, she might still be looking for THE ONE guy. You just need to convice her that you are the one. And if you ask me, you have done a good job till now. Keep it up. Girls sometimes take a while to make up their minds.

Just because she goes out with other guys dsnt mean she dsnt like you... shes probably outgoing and dnt let yourself get worried... I mean especially if shes your friend why would she lie to you..? Um its understandable tho... id say you should talk to her about the whole issue and see what she says and then if distance is rly an issue then just move on..?