Definity look at http://www.goodvibes.com/. Good stuff!
Seriously. That question title is a huge set up. I'm surprised no one's been naughty and answered "me." :-)
Also, You could mix up other things, too. Treat yourself to a nice evening out, and make the grand finish at home something to look forward to. Try a lube (never oil based or Vaseline). An organic one I like is http://www.goodcleanlove.com/store/personal-lubricants . There's also a warming one like KY Intense with less scary ingredients, but I can't remember the name and I'm not at home right now. Do research online and you can probably find it. Light scented candles and make yoru solo environment more "romantic." If you're old enough, have a nice glass of wine before. Make everything about pleasuring yourself pleasurable. Get satin sheets. You see where I'm goin' with this.
Answered Jan 11, 2012
Edited Jan 12, 2012