Im a girl so I found out bestfriend is bi and she wnts us to date so badly but I'm straight help!

I am 18(senior in high school) so I and my boyfriend broke up like 2 weeks ago so my best friend decide to cheer me up by going to this party and we both had a couple drinks and we were playing truth or dare and we got dared to makeout for 10 seconds with each other no big deal right. So after the party I spent the night at her house us still a little tipsy she kept kissing me and I let her ( me thinking we where just having fun) and then she grabed my boobs ( my clothes where on) when I was not looking aftewards she told me she has had a major crush on me since the 8th grade until now and that she wants us to be in a relationship so badly( just to let you guys kno she has had a WHOLE lot of family problems) anyways she tells me that she is in love with me and always will be and that she is glad that me and my boyfriend broke up b/c he was not good enough for me but she is. After that the next day I wnt home and ignored her for a couple of days to think. But then she randomly came over to my house one day coming to tell me that's she is sorry if she freaked me out but she also said she can't live without me and if she can't have me whats the point of living this life and I don't want my best friends to commit suicide over me but I know she has the potential to do it because she tried to in the past over a family problem. I love her with all my heart as a friend but I'm not Bi I love Guys But if I do get in a relationship with her then she won't kill herself but I would not be happy and that's not one of my morals I just wished that I never kissed her in truth and dare it's just a lose lose situation please help me I need advice :(

You can't be responsible for one-way decisions other people make, even if they threaten suicide. If that worked, your parents would use it to get you to do your homework. Explain to her that your situation is the same as if some guy at school picked her out and decided he was in love with her. She is trying to manipulate you and the worse thing that can happen for her would be for it to work.

If you think there is a serious threat that she might try suicide, tell her parents or a school counselor but this isn't your problem to deal with.

Well if you are not that way, that is not your fault.
Yeah tell her parents.

On the other hand, she might be telling you she will "commit suicide" because she is immature or trying to use that to get what she wants.

For whatever reasons they are, I would tell the proper people. Just in case, if you are a friend, you should get her help.

Tell her you didn't mean to hurt or mislead her... that you didn't understand how what you did would effect her. But as much as you love her and care for her, you aren't "wired" to be able to give her what she needs from a girlfriend, but that you just KNOW that there's someone wonderful out there for her. You have to be honest with her, and you can't allow yourself to be manipulated like this. It's not good for you.

I agree, she's exhibiting really unhealthy behavior that you aren't equipped or responsible to deal with. Tell a school counselor about her threat if you think she's serious.

are you sure you dont feel for her like that at all? yeh you cant force yourself to feel things for anyone. yano, I felt exactly the same and thought it was impossible to love a girl and be with a girl.. guess where I am now, in love with my girlfriend of whom i've been with for 6 years. its crazy.

yeh, I thought exactly the same, done exactly the same, ignored her, she said sorry, she told me that she couldnt lose me and I thought she'd be suicidal cuz she also had family problems and had tried in the past, and one day she came to mine to talk things thru, and then we ended up sleeping with eachother? and when that happened I knew it wasnt jus friendship, I deeply loved her.

its not right for you to worry and feel like she'd do something stupid over you thought, all im saying is, sit and have a long hard think, do you only not love her because yur scared thats not the right way to be in life? cuz if so, loves not about anyone loving anyone, its about the chemistry between two peoples.

i hope you figure this out for yours and your friends well being