How do I get him to like me for me, not for my looks?

I've never really worried about these things before, but I sometimes feel like guys like me, but when I ask my friends about it, they're always telling me that they only act like that because they want certain things from me or because they think I'm pretty. There are 3 guys I'm confused about, and I don't know if it's a good idea to talk to them about it or not.
One of them is extremely nice to me.... I can never be mad at him, he's just a big sweetheart. He gives me hugs in the hallway every single day. Another guy is also nice to me, but he's very confusing. He gives me hugs all the time too, and flirts with me a lot. And the other guy just stands around and talks to me whenever his friends aren't around. He's really nice, and I have a lot in common with him.

Well, I really hope you can help me with all of this. THANKS!!!!

You can get guys to like you, by having a great personality! If 3 guys like you, you probably have a great personality! And yes you should talk to the 3 guys! If you decided to ask one of them out, see who is the NICEST and maybe ask around school if they like you. Usually, guys tell there friends if they like someone. Hope this helped!

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Well. People today are strange and give mix singles. Becareful, however yes talk and be friends. Just learn how to tell when people are playing games. Be friends with as many people as you can, you never know.

Don't worry about what your friends say. Be you and be real. I hate girls when they are showing off and putting on a show. I want the "real deal." A girl who is herself. Most guy don't which is good because a "sincere guy" wants a "real girl"

It takes time, that's all I got. It starts with friendships. Remember that. I am not sure how young you are, but if you are under 18, it might take college years to find someone or he could be there and your missing him.

As for me, I am waiting for a certain girl, but she's not ready. I will date and continue but when she is ready, I am hers.