What is the easiest way to ignore her?

I'm not good at expressing my self, but I will try my best.
There is this girl who thinks I like her because we make eye contact a lot, while I'm not really interested in her. What makes me think that is how she acts. I'm trying my best to kill this feelings but I can't, I do an eye-contact with her by mistake. And I don't want this to affect my life as I try to escape from everyplace she goes.
Do you have any advise on how to ignore her ?
2Furious
Asked Dec 26, 2011
Making eye contact doesn't mean anything. Stop worrying about it. If she goes beyond that tell her, "I have no idea what you've got in mind but I'm not interested."
Rob
Answered Dec 26, 2011
Well, I agree if it was like once a day. But it's like every 5 minutes.
The only way you could know she's looking at you is for you to be looking at her. If you're looking at her every five minutes, then maybe you need to reconsider your statement that, "I'm not really interested in her."
Rob Dec 26, 2011
Well, it is not what you think. It is just like I'm the kind of person who likes looking around a lot not for a particular reason.
Your question isn't about "looking around" it's about "Eye Contact." Eye contact is when the two of you are looking at each other. It takes two sets of eyes.
Rob Dec 28, 2011
Just relax, stop obsessing over it, go about your business... and do what Rob says.
skyDancer
Answered Dec 27, 2011
I'm obsessed because she made me paranoid, everyplace I go I feel like I'm in a shell and she is like watching every move I make.
The thing is it's easy to mistake repeated eye contact for interest, so if you keep looking at her you're probably sending mixed signals and dragging this thing out far longer than it needs to go.

She didn't "make" you paranoid. No one can "make" us feel anything. We have to own our feelings. You haven't indicated that she has any intentions to cause you bodily harm, so most of this is likely in your head. Let's put this in perspective... this may seem huge now, but 1, 2, 5 years from now, you aren't going to remember this. Live longer, and you'll have real problems and you'll know things like this aren't worth the energy.

I'm going to try to take the same advice. Look, I'm obsessing over lots in my life right now, too. We both need to breathe, chill, and relax.

If you stop looking at her, she'll likely lose interest as well.
Do not engage in and eye contract at all for whatever reasons. Keep your eyes in your world and do not let them wonder. If it's making you feel strange like that or whatever, it should come easy and should not be a problem.

Or

You can sit her down and confront her. If you think she will understand. (i would try this)

or

set her up with a guy who likes her or would consider dating her. ( I would even try this, maybe a friend would like to hang with her.)

or

convince her your taken or gay. Hey whatever works. Right?

It's your choice.

mysteryshepherd
Answered Dec 28, 2011

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