How do get my best friend to fall in love with me

me and my freind have been best freinds since grade school we are both gay and how to get her to like me should I do a secret admireder thing

I hate to tell you this, sometimes you can not really get someone to fall for ya.

Than again maybe you can. I would advice to be friends and maybe then your friend might fall for you because of the great friendship. However your friend might like you now and you do not know it.

I would show your friend how nice you are, like do nice things for the person, always be caring, polite, etc... Do little things to impress them. Just be gentle about it. Just always support the person in everything they do. Also invite them to things you like to do. maybe in time you two will just fall in love and that would be best. That's all I got on this one. Ok Good luck.

The secret admirer thing might be fun and it wouldn't hurt anything to try. In the end though, the controlling factor will be the chemistry. You can't make that happen in someone else. They gotta feel it.