I want to save my virginity but I dont

I have someone I want to save my virginity for but at the same time I want to have sex what do I do?

Become educated about sex and relationships.
Every time you feel like you want to have sex and if you are with someone get around many people. Always stay in public places with people you think you might want to have sex with.

Change what your doing to avoid getting sexual. You know?
Such as keep a paper on risk like Rob said. Read that paper if you think your going to fall. Likewise you can use anything. Bible, or whatever.

I wouldn't have sex and regret all what I have done, because holding the hand of a love on is better than sex if you ask me.
Every time I have sex I regret it. It is not the one. Sex feels better when you love the person, but likewise sex isn't everything.

You think about it for a long time, consider all of the risks involved and decide which choice will be in your best interests ten years from now.

Looking back, I'm glad that I waited until my twenties to become sexually active, and I'm glad I've had so few partners... as in I can count them on one hand and have extra fingers. (I'm 34 & married now.) I like that it means something to me. I like that I don't have that list of regrets. I like feeling that I haven't "wasted" myself on anyone. I like that I feel good about myself for having made decisions that allow me to feel good about myself and respected. I like that I've never had a pregnancy scare or a kid that I didn't have on purpose. I like that I've never had my feelings hurt by having sex with someone who gave me an STD or disrespected me afterwards. I recommend waiting as loooooooong as possible... and getting good at flying solo in the meantime if that helps you wait.

Masturbate.

Take you'r time and do what you have to do and what's in you'r mind .