How do I let my parents talk to my girlfriends parents without getting caught up in my lies that are

my girlfriends parents want to talk to my parents but I dont want them to because ive told my girlfriend a few lies to protect her and she told her parents. what do I do because I dont want her parents to hate me?

If you or your girlfriend are doing things you don't want your parents to know about you either have a serious communication problem with your parents or you're doing things you shouldn't be doing. It is very unfair to them to act on your own and then expect them to bail you out of the jam when you do something stupid.

Why would you post a question here asking how to deceive the only people in the world that you can always trust 100% to act in your best interests?

Wow! I do see where you are coming from, but I am not sure what lies you are talking about. I do not agree with lies but if you must depending on what it is. Can you cover something up or can they by chance except the truth. Once again I do not know what it is, but that is for you to decide. Sometimes people will be more understanding than what you know. You might be shocked, but you do need to be as honest as possible because it's moral. You will also get caught in lies.

Is their something you can change once again you only know what is going on. You can feel them out and see if you can be honest. Even if they hate you so what.

It is between you and are girl. I see no problem there, unless they stop her from seeing you.

Well That's the best I got and hoping others will put their thoughts. Good Luck if you want to tell it a little I will try harder to see.

There's this saying that my mother and grandmother always told me, and now I say the same thing to my kids. The saying goes:

"Be brave enough to be honest."

There are exceptions when life and limb are in danger, but mostly we lie when we're trying to protect our egos and manipulate others. That's not a good reason to compromise your integrity and jeopardize other people's feelings.

If you stall, she and her parents will grow suspicious. If your parents are like most parents, they are unlikely to participate in the lie and will call you on it. If you tell more lies to cover your tracks, you'll just get yourself in deeper.

At some point, you're going to have to face the music... better to mitigate the damage now. Your best bet is to come clean with your girlfriend, explain why you deceived her, and beg forgiveness. Don't be surprised if you've damaged the trust, though.