Whats my deal?!

im just a bit confused and I thought that maybe some input from some people may help me clear my head..

Basically I got on facebook and saw my girl saying things to guys that makes me feel uneasy, like calling other dudes "boo boo bear" and setting up "dates" with other mystery men I dont even know. I have made the decision that I will not say anything to her about it because it probably seems stupid to her, and I am going to just tell her that I think she is too pretty for me and break up with her. I figure that maybe that may even boost her self esteem. Im 22 years old and I know I am young but you all know how this type of thing goes. I dont wanna break up with her, but I should cause it makes me sad that she says things to other guys that would make her mad if I were to do it. Is this a good idea?

I am 25 and been trough many lies with girls. Do not live a lie. I think she is playing. If you confront her and tell her how feel in a calm manner, and if that does not work. Do you want to live a lie? Or find a true girl? Many girls are out there. I am been meeting some really cool ones. Thought mine was cool, but she had to go. I am happy meeting new girls and making friendships when I think someone is sincere about love, I will go 4 it. Do not settle for one like you said you are young, thus meet many girls and seek the one that you think will be true to you. good Luck

Ok, so it seems there are two big issues here:

1) You two have boundary issues, either because you haven't agreed on them or because she's transgressing them. Whatever the case, you're clearly uncomfortable with her behavior and don't feel like you/your relationship are being disrespected. Normally, I'd suggest talking through it to see if you two can get on the same page.... but

2) From what you wrote, either for whatever reason you don't feel safe/comfortable talking to her about how you feel... Or you don't feel invested enough in the relationship to bother.

Think about what's really going on, and talk to her or walk. Chose the option that allows you to feel respected, and honors your instincts. You'll know which is best.

At any rate, if you do decide to end the relationship, don't lie about the reason... as in telling her she's too pretty. Firstly, be honest. Tell her you two don't want the same things and it's not working out. Secondly, given her online behavior, she doesn't sound like someone who needs someone to artificially prop her up.