She stole my best friend what do I do?

(this is going to be reall confusing )

okay so theres this girl at my school named Hailey and her and I used to be friends. were not friends anymore because she stole my best friend away from me named Ally and Hailey made Ally think alot of bad things about me and Hailey is starting stuff at school and I dont know how to deal with it and I just want to go up to her and punch her in her face.

how should I deal with it?

Another person can't "steal" your friends like a thief steals a wallet because your friend is not an inanimate object. Your friends can choose who they associate with just like you can and they can be friends with as many people as they want.

You deal with it by choosing friends that are not into gossip and competition and don't participate in such activity yourself. Always take the high road and let people like that wrestle in the mud.

Exactly what I was going to say. Your former friend isn't a baseball card. No one "stole" her. She made a choice... and if that's her choice, you're better off without her. *You* are also free to make a choice. Learn to become a better judge of character, and chose your friends more wisely.

A loyal friend doesn't leave you. When I was 15 years old, I thought I had many friends. Truth is I only had about 3 loyal friends. The rest were not. Do not live lies. Friends do not leave people they care about. I am not in young adulthood and I have many great friends and people I just talk to. I know who my friends are and as time goes by you will learn. For now just be friends with everyone and let people prove to you that they are loyal. Join clubs and other things you like to do. Goodluck

well, like sky and rob said, you can't steal a person. they have a free will just the same as u. try to get some friends that wont leave u.

i say punch her :L I know how you feel and I get that you think this girl has stolen your friend but if she was really your bestfriend she will come back :) why dont you just try and be friends with both of them? thats what I di it works pretty well and if your friend likes this girl then you should trust her good judgement of character also your friend is not just yours she can have other friends chill dude make some new friends