Should I give him another chance?

I used to date this guy and his name was Ray. me and him were in love but all the time he would make me feel bad about myself, he would always cheat on me, he always never acted like he loved me when I was in love with him. We have gone back out at least 16 times. And im not postive on what I should do. Should I go back with him? or should I just not have him in my life?
Alysaboo2410
Asked Dec 10, 2011
If he's the same guy as the stalker in your other question you definitely need to get away from him. People who are "in love" with you don't cheat on you or follow you everywhere you go. That's the behavior of a self centered control freak that needs to grow up.
Rob
Answered Dec 10, 2011
thank you
I'm concerned that you're even asking what you should do.

There is no good reason to be with someone who tries to make you feel bad or who cheats on you. Those are not acts of love. That is not how you show respect.

You should stay away from him... and ask yourself why you don't think you deserve better than this guy.
skyDancer
Answered Dec 10, 2011
Thank you
Nope. Most of the time people who cheat always cheat it's their desire.
to be fair, You can give him one chance, but if he messes up again. It will be over, because most likely he will keep doing it.

If someone cheats once, and they loose you.
If/when they come back, I would give them one chance.
Maybe they learned their lesson and it has been done before.

If the person does it again, it's time to realize.
They most likely desire females as a sex object.
So yeah, I would not give another shot in this case.
mysteryshepherd
Answered Jan 05, 2012
Edited Jan 05, 2012
i didnt and it turns out he only wanted me for sex and when I didnt give it to him he left me.. thank you for the advice tho
if it didn't work the first 16 times, and he did nothing to change during the 16th time, the 17th won't work. forget him, you deserve better.
aberri123
Answered Jan 17, 2012
Thank you for the advice (:
no u shouldnt because he was practically making you feel like crap and a uy does not have the right to treat ANY girl like that at all.
Tim_Tam
Answered Apr 08, 2012
keep that son of a biscut eater out of your life there is this song by taylor swift called White Horse that you should listen to it sounds alot your situation.
he is making you feel bad so he can came and save you in your despair and then he just knocks you down and he has you because it makes him feel good but he just wont stay true. myabe you should confront him about it
Kiruse
Answered Feb 01, 2013
Edited Feb 01, 2013
sometimes you better give him a chance
but talk with him first
:(
Cutegirl
Answered Jan 05, 2012
i did talk to him... thank you for the advice (:

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