A friend kiss?

So one of my friend has a boyfriend which she's serious about, but gave this one guy a kiss on the cheek. It wasn't super long and it's not like she put a ton of thought in it; the guy she kissed was a close friend and it was among mutual friends so it didn't seem like a big deal. Are these kind of kisses okay when your invested in a relationship with someone else? Tell me what you think and why please :)
needanswersfast
Asked Dec 05, 2011
Basically, this is your friend's business, not yours. All you need to know is what's ok for you and what concords with whatever agreements you and your significant other have agreed upon. What other people do isn't your concern.
skyDancer
Answered Dec 05, 2011
I'm not trying to judge them. I've just never seen that before and I was wondering if it's a common thing in other places or for people is all :)
I think it depends on whatever the agreement is with her boyfriend. My husband wouldn't care if I did that, but I wouldn't. I just wouldn't want to send anyone the wrong message...

I think it depends on the intentions, too. If it's really a friendly kiss and neither one is hoping for more, it's fine in my opinion.
A kiss is an emotional expression. You have to consider why she did it. If the kiss on his cheek was a clearly understood response to something he did for her, that's different than doing it for no reason. For example if a mom kisses a rescue worker that just saved her child, nobody could see anything wrong with that. I've received a number of thank you kisses when I would have much preferred a handshake. :-)
Rob
Answered Dec 06, 2011

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