So I met this girl through a friend and hung out with her a couple times about a year ago but nothing happened. Out of the blue I texted her and asked her out about a month and a half ago. She was hesitant at first because she said she was shy and I should take it as a compliment. After some work I got herto say yes. We kept it casual, just went out one night for drinks. She came back to my place and We ended up having sex numerous times. We made plans to hang out again soon but she told me something came up. Then after a little more trying I got her to hang out again. Once again we ha a great time with each other. We texted a ton with each other just about every day. She told me that she liked me but after making plans to see each other again she broke them again! She said she was sick so I offerred to bring a movie over and just hang out. She said ,"omg why didn't you offer sooner! That's so sweet!" so I told her id call her later and I'd come by. When I did, she said, "oh you should just go out with your friends, you don't wanna hang out with a sicko like me". I said I would love to just chill with her but she insisted I didn't come over. Even after a month of hanging out together and both of us tellin each other we really like each other, lots of sex, several great nights out together, etc; she still makes plans and then keeps blowing me off last minute! I kinda flipped on her and asked her what the hell her problem was. She told me that I'm too nice and she doesn't deserve a guy like me, and she has low self esteem, etc. Even though I've told her how great she is. She still initiates text convos etc so I don't think this is to try Nd blow me off but she is so guarded and won't show me any affection. What is her deal!? Help!!
Asked Nov 29, 2011
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