Do You Think You Can Help Me?

Hey. Again. Well, I would trie to talk to him but I can't. His "buddies" are always around him. Litterally! He's on the basketball team now and so when they go to practice they have to go to this cedear grove elemenatry school gym to practice. And at times I think I would catch him staring at me from the corner of his eye. Him and his buddies always sit up front. So I sit in the back. Although, every time I sit in the back I think sometimes he chooses 2 or 3 seats ahead of me on purpose. But I sit on the right he sits on the left. My friend Katelyn, she knew I had liked him last year and she asked him out for me. This was sometime in the beginnig of september in 6th grade. He said no and she never told me. But I still like him. Is that kinda creepie or is that still normal? Answer if you can. <3

Nah, I understand that feeling. I don't think it's creepy at all, but maybe it's time you drum up some confidence and see how he feels. I think you should try being more out there and maybe get to know him more (if your not already friends with him).

See if you can practice basketball with him, talk to him if you see him at school and be confident when you do these things. Don't pop up too much. Catch his eye and interest him. Ask him a couple things and then let him start talking to you some. Even if your intent is good, coming after him all the time might become annoying to him or he might get the impression your clingy.

Once your better acquainted with him, ask him if he'd like to do something with you sometime and after a while pop the question if he'd like to go out.

Don't worry, this plan doesn't take years to follow (like it might have felt to read, haha) but playing this little cat and mouse game for a couple weeks and building up some sort of a friendship can help get him interested in you.

This doesn't mean you have to be like this after breaking the ice and getting to know him. Be yourself and be comfortable.

I hope this approach helps you. Good luck ♥