I love a girl I dont know at all

I don't know this girl at all I have never even talked to her before. but for some reason I can't stop thinking about her. I think about her ever second of the day. I try to forget her but I can't. I ever left my school because I couldn't stand seeing her ever day. just the thought of her makes me go crazy. I get very jealous when ever I see her with another guy. I cant ever talk to two of my friends because they dated her. I wont to forget her but then I don't want to. all my friends know I like her and they don't get whats wrong with me. I have been dealing with this for almost 3 years. I really need help I can't go on with life like this. if you have an answer please help.
ThatGuy
Asked Nov 22, 2011
I agree that you need to move beyond this torturous emotional limbo. I've always favored the direct approach over mind games. Tell her. If she likes you, great. If not, move on. It's not healthy to be in this state for so long.

Also, you know it doesn't feel good to be so obsessed with one person like this. Ask yourself why you've been willing to feel like this for so long, and what would possess you to love someone else more than you love yourself. These are serious questions. Don't take them lightly.
skyDancer
Answered Nov 22, 2011
You're giving up your personal power in this situation. Have you heard those words before? Do you understand what that means? If you learn about this now, you'll save yourself more suffering in the future.

You will get over her. Frankly, as you get older and have to deal with more crap, you'll see that you can get over far worse things.
Ask her friends who she likes if you can't face her.
You need to do something about it my friend.
At least tell her how you feel, maybe don't tell her everything, but at least tell her that you will go insane if you don't express your feelings for her.
If she rejects you, then don't worry your brain will help you get over it, at least the doubt will be gone.

Maybe send her a secret admirers card to begin with, this can go a long way for someone who she may have known for a few years (i take it she knows you, maybe not that your in love with her, I think you are)
But try not to scare her, when a secret admirer reveals themselves, it can go either way.
Do you know how she feels about you?
BigRichard
Answered Nov 22, 2011
I agree. You're suffering needlessly. Don't keep being Romeo with no Juliet. (maybe not the best analogy cause that didn't end well for them, but you know what I mean)
BrightStar
Answered Nov 22, 2011
Edited Nov 22, 2011
Then it's not love if you don't know her
DontTalkAnymore
Answered Dec 29, 2011
please help I have the same problem .but if you do true love no one can stop her to be your even god .
totolorry
Answered Feb 15, 2012
Actually, god could kill you if he felt like it.
I know the feeling bro, same girl for two years. See her on my bus everyday.
Can't get her out of my head, and I haven't even had a real conversation with her....,
BassguitR123
Answered Feb 21, 2012
well if you love her but dont talk then start talking and see what she is into and then see if she is truelly the one you love
Tim_Tam
Answered Apr 08, 2012

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