Dating this shy girl any tips?

there is this shy girl who I work with who i'm having some trouble with. we had a date last week, which went pretty well. we had Coffee then walked around the neighbourhood and talked for about 2 hours. we have alot in common and have some great conversation. at the end of the night I tried to kiss her but she pushed me away saying "i have a thing about that" and then she said she "dosn't like to plan for the future".

She was out of town for the weekend so we didn't make plans for the following weekend. On wendsday went into the store and she saw me and walked into the break room while wathcing me out of the corner of her eye. I figured it was because she was a little embarassed about what happened on our date. I tried to call her when I got home and got the mahcine. I left a message asking her if she was free saturday, she didn not call back. I went in today (saturday) to check my hours and she was not there, I called again when I got home. it rnag for a minute then I got the machine, I hung up without leaving a message.

I find shy girls are very avoidant. After I talked to this girls for the first time she avoided me for like a week and I was only able to talk to her when she came to me. she dose that, she'll avoid me at work and then come to my section or make herself visible when she feels like its time.

so i'm not sure how to proceed. I may or may nto see her tommorrow, if I do i'm asking her out again. but I don't like waiting 3 weeks jsut to get a kiss. and what if she has intimacy issues? what if we date for several months and theres no sex? i'm a good lookign guy. I get bites all the time, theres no reason why I can't find another girl.
i am pretty sure this girl likes me, and I know shy girls avoid guys they like, but I don't like being avoided, and i'm going to be REALLY busy over the next 4 or 5 weeks with school and I'm worried we won't have enough time to date. anyway, i'm not sure what ot do.

we are both 20, and I don't have cell phone so no texting. just to clear that up.
i posted this on another site and the responder told me that she is still interested in me but wants to keep her options open.

Honestly if there is one thing that I have learned from shy women is that sometimes they want to come after you. As for the whole part of you trying to kiss her, with shy women they don't normally kiss on the first date. They want to see if there is something there without getting physically involved.

I agree with night_angel.

Plus, sometimes (shy/smart) women want to make sure they can trust someone before getting physically involved. She may want to spend time with you to make sure she can trust you and feels comfortable before going down that road. ... If you think you can get it from someone else faster, then she knows that about you too, and it could impact how fast she wants to go further if she's not sure she can trust you'll stick around. So you need to decide if you're able to give her that time *if* that's what she needs.

Sounds like you guys need to have a good chat about preferences.

well if shes shy the best you can do is to comfort her and try to have a no secrets policy in your relationship that way shes knows you are open and honest

It really all depends on what you and the other person is comfortable with. If you think you have to have sex or kiss; get intimate right away, then maybe ask her if that's alright (being the shy girl she is and all.) If she says no and you think you really can't be with her for that, then look for someone else. You shouldn't try to change people; you should accept them as they are or move on. If you really see a future with her and want to pursue a more meaningful relationship, then accept her decisions and work on getting closer to her until she's comfortable with going further.

Also, since you probably don't know her that well her actions could be for different reasons. She could be trying to attract you, be shy, doesn't like your type and doesn't know how to turn you down or is afraid of confrontation, be intimidated by you, etc. If you really like her, just try a little more, if your standards don't accept her than go on.